"Psychological examination" is just a kind of advice. A real marriage also depends on the relationship between the two people to support it, and the accumulation of emotion cannot be separated from full communication and When it comes to communication, you must not neglect your understanding of the other party in daily interactions just because you have a "psychological examination."

Pay attention to the quality of marriage

Ms. Wang has been dating her boyfriend for many years and their relationship is good. However, when her boyfriend mentioned marriage, Ms. Wang hesitated. The reason was that Ms. Wang had an inexplicable feeling about marriage. The fear, the thought of being with a man day and night makes me scared. Finally, she went to the psychological clinic for consultation. The doctor tested Miss Wang's personality and provided psychological counseling. Finally, Miss Wang decided to get married. Miss Jia and Mr. Chen were classmates from high school until they graduated from college. They are now working in Nanning. They are planning to register their marriage next month. A few days ago, they listened to a friend's suggestion and went to a psychological counselor to test whether their personalities were a "good match." After testing their personalities, psychological counseling experts told them that their personalities were "complementary" and very suitable for marriage.

According to relevant experts, people's psychological counseling before marriage shows that people pay attention to the quality of marriage and their inner world, which is an improvement in self-awareness and a reflection of the improvement of people's living standards. More and more prospective couples are seeking psychological counseling for themselves and their “other half” regarding their psychological health and character harmony, which can reduce the divorce rate and improve the quality of marriage.

Easy to "prescribe the right medicine"

Both Mr. Liu and Ms. Wang remarried. Since their first marriages both broke up due to personality differences, they are particularly cautious about getting married again. For this reason, they also go to a psychological counselor to take a personality test. After testing, experts believe that although their personalities are quite different, if they can overcome their own personality weaknesses and tolerate each other's, they can also achieve harmony in their marriage and form a happy family. Through the "pulse" of psychological counseling experts, they had a clear idea of ​​their future marriage. On October 25, they tied the knot.

It is understood that general premarital psychological counseling includes three aspects: psychological and physiological coordination, sexual psychology, and personality and temperament matching. Doctors believe that paying attention to each other's personality and psychology before marriage is a sign of prudence. Whether the marriage is happy and happy and whether the spouses' personalities are a "good match" is an important factor. A "psychological physical examination" before marriage is necessary, and a psychological expert can "feel the pulse" " to help you understand the other person's personality characteristics so that you can "prescribe the right medicine" in the future, adjust your psychology in time when conflicts occur, and maintain a happy and harmonious marriage.

According to relevant people, family breakdown often involves a variety of reasons, and personality conflicts account for a large proportion. Some husbands or wives are narrow-minded, jealous, suspicious, and often make trouble over nothing; some are irritable and often vent their dissatisfaction on family members; some have a dark and negative mentality, speak harshly, and are extremely contemptuous of each other. These psychological problems may not necessarily show up in love, so it is necessary to do a "psychological examination" before marriage to understand the other person's personality.

Happiness depends on tolerance

Doctors believe that "psychological examination" is only a kind of advice, and a real marriage must be supported by the relationship between the two, and the accumulation of emotion is inseparable from the relationship between the two. Develop sufficient exchanges and communication, and must not neglect the understanding of the other party in daily interactions just because of the "psychological examination". Marriage is complicated, and there are many factors that affect it. However, the current psychological tests are not accurate enough and may not be very scientific. The results of psychological tests are still only a reference indicator. To ensure the quality of marriage, the key is that both husband and wife should respect each other after marriage. Mutual tolerance.