I am 28 years old. I have been divorced for more than a year and have not found a suitable boyfriend for a while. Normally, I feel very lonely, and the days during the day are okay, but the long nights of loneliness are an unbearable torture. Is it harmful to suppress sexual desire for a long time? Are there any medicines that can eliminate this desire?

Expert answer:

Sexual desire is a normal physiological manifestation of a person, not a disease. Once you understand this, you will understand that there is no need to use any drugs to eliminate this desire. We believe that your problem is only a temporary problem. As long as you think of more solutions, take the initiative on your own, participate in more social activities, or find a boyfriend as soon as possible through some marriage agencies or marriage notices, the problem can be solved. Of course, long-term suppression of sexual desire will have some impact on sexual psychology and function. Based on this, in order to reduce this adverse impact to a minimum, in addition to focusing on work and study, you should actively participate in some useful activities. In addition to recreational and sports activities, using methods such as masturbation to eliminate a certain degree of sexual tension can be an expedient measure for your situation.

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