The harmony of sexual life affects the stability of a couple's relationship to a great extent, especially for those "old couples". The boring sex life is the main reason for the cooling of the relationship. If you want to have Passionate sex can actually use some special tools and sex toys. So how can sex toys be used more effectively?

In terms of pure sensory stimulation, sex experts believe that sex appliances do have "fascinating allure", but saying they are easily "addictive" is a bit exaggerated. Because humans are not animals dominated solely by lust. Humans have emotions. In addition to physical pleasure, they also pursue spiritual satisfaction, which cannot be filled by cold sexual tools.

On the other hand, the better the relationship between husband and wife, the higher the degree of emotional satisfaction. Not only will the use of sexual appliances not cause bad interference, but it can also enhance the quality and interest of sexual life. If each other uses sexual tools to each other, the stimulation level will be further increased.

Adult products are best used only when necessary

However, in order to prevent the abuse of sex equipment, it is best to follow the "need" principle. Sex experts explain that the first is "use by those in need." For example, those who are separated in two places, widowed, disabled, and married couples have sexual intercourse, can use sex appliances as a supplement to meet daily sexual requirements; the second is to "use them when needed."

Adult products are not necessities of life. If you take them out and play with them from time to time, your body will become less and less sensitive to stimulation, which will lead to higher and higher requirements for stimulation. Not only is it harmful to the body, but the psychological condition will also be caused or become more serious.

When couples use adult products with each other, they should pay more attention to whether both parties have the same intention. If one party wants to use it, but the other party hates it, or has not consulted the other party's opinion, reluctantly using sexual equipment will only be self-defeating. "Like some men buying for their wives, it may be difficult for the wife to refuse, but if she is unhappy and has random thoughts, it will endanger the relationship between the couple."

Some men think that it is okay for men to use adult products, but if they find their wives or girlfriends secretly using adult products, they will often get furious.

Sex experts say that despite the relationship between husband and wife, how to vent sexual desire is still an individual's privacy. You should allow the other party a certain degree of freedom, rather than forcing the other party to obey you. Therefore, even if a husband feels angry, unsure, or guilty when he sees his wife secretly using sexual devices, he should eventually understand her. The two of them should discuss the situation of disharmony in their sexual life and make appropriate adjustments. If the husband has sexual dysfunction, he should be treated together as soon as possible.

Only by using these adult products correctly can the quality of sex between men and women be effectively improved. If used blindly, it will only make the sex between two people worse, which is counterproductive.