Sex life is an important part of the relationship between husband and wife. If the sex life is not harmonious, it is easy for the relationship between husband and wife to have feelings of discord. In the process of sexual life, husband and wife must respect each other, adapt to each other, and accept each other. If the following mistakes are made, the sexual life will become incompatible.

What mistakes lead to inappropriate sexual life?

1. Too lazy to change

As the marriage relationship prolongs, couples become more and more familiar with each other, and can even achieve a tacit understanding of becoming one body. However, this tacit understanding will be a bit boring if it is reflected in sex life. . If you always look for flexibility in your sexual life, the same, the same positions, the same process, it will easily cause both parties to get tired of the sexual life, and it will gradually become like a routine. This will not bring any benefit to the harmony of sexual life, and may even lead to emotional indifference between husband and wife.

2. Excessive pursuit of a sense of ritual

Many couples have to add a lot of rituals to themselves before having sex, such as going out on a date, having a romantic candlelight dinner or a scented atmosphere, etc. In fact, these are just floating clouds. As long as the couple comes to feel each other and sends the children away, keeping a world for two can burn passion.

3. Feel free to refuse sexual advances

Sometimes the sexual desires of a couple are indeed not on the same frequency, which results in one person seeking sexual pleasure while the other person is sexually attracted to the opposite sex. At this time, a balance is needed. If you just use being tired as an excuse to refuse sex, it will easily hurt the other person's heart, but doing something you don't want to do will also make you feel wronged. At this time, the couple needs to communicate actively and effectively to see where the problem lies, and then jointly discuss a time to have a perfect and hearty sex.

4. Not seeing the other party’s efforts

The relationship between husband and wife seems to be very stable, but in fact it is also very fragile. Any incident may be the last straw that breaks the marriage life, so we must be considerate, understanding and supportive of each other in daily life. When you encounter a conflict, you should actively make changes instead of letting the conflict remain between two people. Sometimes it is precisely because there is no hope for the marriage relationship that one loses interest in sex, so problems must be discovered early.

5. Don’t like to have sex

There are also some couples who have outdated ideas and believe that sex is only for the purpose of procreating offspring, and there is no need to have sex after giving birth to children. Both parties choose to have a sexless marriage. In fact, although a sexless marriage is a personal choice, suppressing oneself for a long time and not having sex is not good for physical health, and the relationship between husband and wife will also become worse without the bond of sex. More fragile.

Disharmony in sexual life will bring many hidden dangers to marriage and relationships. I hope everyone can realize where they have made mistakes and correct them in time to make the marriage relationship stronger and the relationship between husband and wife sweeter.