Men and women in love always behave in some very intimate ways, which makes singles very jealous. There are many kinds of intimacy behaviors. Simple kissing and hugging are more common and are not too offensive in public places. However, deep kissing, tongue kissing, and caressing private parts of the body are going too far. Not only is it "immoral," it can also have a negative impact on children, and even your partner may not like this behavior.

Therefore, intimacy in public needs to be moderate, a light kiss or a gentle hug is enough. Too much and it's a bit like "gangster".

Principles of intimacy in public places

First, a moderate kiss

Men and women who are in love want to be together all the time, and kissing is an act of expressing their love and showing the sweetness of love. However, public places are not private places and there are too many people coming and going around them. It would be too indecent to kiss someone deeply or even start a tongue kiss in a crowd. The most appropriate way to do this is to gently kiss the other person on the cheek, forehead, and lips, which can express your feelings without attracting strange looks from others.

Second, a brief hug

Don't believe the scenes in movies of couples embracing in crowds, they are all exaggerated effects. In reality, in the endless flow of people, two people suddenly appeared hugging each other and remained motionless for a long time, which obviously hindered the walking of others. It also invites gossip. So, if you want to be hugged, do it for a short time, not for too long. Moreover, the air on the street is not good, there is a lot of noise, and there is no mood at all. Why bother holding her for so long?

Third, don’t be too “presumptuous” with your hands

The most indecent behavior in public is hands that are too "unruly". Especially for men, when their girlfriend is around them, they are always lustful, and if they are lustful, they may do arbitrary things. For example, taking advantage of the opportunity from the waist of the building, the dishonest hands began to "invade" upward until they touched the breasts. He may think it doesn't matter, but his girlfriend may not be willing to do it. This is on the street, what a loss of face!

If a man's hand starts to "attack" downward, the problem becomes more serious. No one knows how many people or pairs of eyes are behind them. He was squeezing his girlfriend's butt with his own hands while the crowd behind him was watching. It was embarrassing to think about it. Most women are somewhat conservative when it comes to touching their private parts. If your "unbridled" behavior violates this bottom line, your grumpy girlfriend will definitely respond with "Five Finger Mountains" to you. As a result, his sexual desire was not satisfied and he even lost his life.

Couple life also needs the right time and place

In the concept of traditional Chinese medicine, sexual life to nourish the heart is particularly important for health, because the heart is the master of the internal organs, and if it is good, everyone will be good. A sexual lifestyle that is beneficial to the heart should be based on the unity of body and soul, and pay attention to the three necessary conditions of time, location, and people.

1. Pay attention to the weather. Traditional Chinese medicine scientists believe that "man is in harmony with heaven and earth." Drastic changes in nature can have a huge impact on people, and sexual life is no exception. Ancient health experts said: "Having sexual intercourse should be tabooed by people and things, and avoided by nature (the weather)." Specifically, during solar and lunar eclipses, thunder and lightning strikes, strong winds and heavy rains, landslides and ground cracks, and strange cold weather, Do not have sex when it is hot and when the yin and yang of heaven and earth are out of order. Most of the situations here are very special, even rare in hundreds or thousands of years. So just keep your sex under control in bad weather.

2. Pay attention to geographical location. Since sexual life is a mysterious act, the place should be "hidden" during sex and must not be peeked or heard by others; once it is "exposed", not only will the beautiful feeling be "disappeared", but also due to shock , "Shock will cause anger", causing the nervous system that is in an excited state to be suddenly suppressed, which may cause impotence, painful ejaculation and other symptoms in men. Women's prescriptions can induce abdominal pain, vaginismus, frigidity, irregular menstruation, etc.

3. Humanity nourishes the heart. When combining yin and yang, we must pay attention to "harmony", that is, choosing the best state of both parties. When both spouses or one spouse has emotions such as "angry, sorrow, sadness, fear" due to various adverse mental stimulations, they should not forcefully engage in sexual intercourse. Due to emotional disharmony, "ruthless and forceful behavior can lead to confusion, lack of mental strength, uneven inertia, and all kinds of diseases." Traditional Chinese medicine has always believed that anger and fear should be avoided during sexual intercourse. If you try your best to have sex when you are angry, you will suffer from deficiency of essence and qi, which will lead to dysmenorrhea; if you enter the room in fear, your yin and yang will be deficient, you will have seizures, spontaneous sweating, night sweats, and eventually tuberculosis.

In addition, you should also be careful not to enter the room after being drunk or overeating. It is best not to have sex after recovering from a serious illness or if you have a disease in your body to avoid worsening of the condition or infecting your partner.