As the saying goes, "There is no man in the world who doesn't care," this sentence is really true. There is a playfulness stirring deep inside men, but some men will not act on it. In fact, the performance of a playboy man is easy to distinguish, and you can discover his secrets from his every move. Therefore, female friends, if you don’t want to find a particularly philandering man, the best way is to learn to understand a man’s psychology by watching the behavior of philandering men. Let’s take a look at the 4 manifestations of playboy men with the editor below!

Determine whether a man is a playboy

1. Rarely mention extramarital affairs

Playful men often dare not bring up words such as extramarital affairs because they are too guilty, because they always have an involuntary sense of substitution. Therefore, whether they are in front of others for money or at home, they rarely talk about abnormal sexual topics such as extramarital affairs or "mistresses". Even when others talk about a certain brother's cheating, the playboy basically does not participate. , On the surface, this kind of person looks more like a gentleman, more like an honest and humble person, but if you look closely, you will find that his performance is often a bit too much.

2. His attitude towards you outside

To judge whether a man is a playboy, you can tell by his behavior in public. A troublesome man will only be enthusiastic about you and even make offside demands when he is alone with you. But in public, he will pretend to be a modest gentleman and keep his distance from you, let alone treat you as his girlfriend. Introduced to his friends. If you happen to meet his friend when you are together, you should ask him to introduce you. Pay attention to the title he uses and his expression when introducing you.

3. The appointment time is fixed

In fact, small details in life can also reveal a man's heart. By observing the time he dates you, you can also see whether this man is carefree. Careful men usually have several "female companions" at the same time, so they need to arrange their time well, so they try to fix the time as much as possible so that there will be no conflicts and errors and misunderstandings can be avoided. You can choose a time when you don't often date, and suddenly appear in front of him without saying hello. If he has a surprised look on his face, it means he loves you deeply and is looking forward to your appearance at any time.

4. The answering status and method of his mobile phone

A troublesome man will set his cell phone to silent mode when he goes on a date with you, and often keeps his cell phone with him. This is because it would be particularly troublesome to have other girls suddenly call you during a date. Therefore, veterans among the philandering boys will turn off the sound on their mobile phones and change it to vibrate. When he's dating you, if his cell phone doesn't ring but he sneaks off to another place to answer the call, he probably has something ulterior to say. Take the opportunity to pay attention to the messages and phone calls on his mobile phone, and you may find something.

Four principles to improve the quality of marriage

1. Don’t make your spouse feel lonely

Sexual psychologists have found that loneliness is a major contributor to infidelity. If couples lack cordial and friendly emotional communication, loneliness will arise spontaneously. Some scholars have found that if one spouse devotes all his energy to work. And neglecting to care about your spouse will result in your spouse becoming indifferent to the sexual relationship between the couple. Whenever possible, new sexual relationships are sought. Sexual life between husband and wife is the bond that maintains the love between husband and wife; it is not only physical intercourse, but also accompanied by emotional communication.

2. Never make life monotonous

Dr. Sandford once pointed out in his book "Sexual Life Adjustment in Middle Ages" that monotonous boredom is the cause of emotional changes. After a few years of marriage, the passion begins to cool down, and there is no longer a mysterious temptation for each other physically and mentally. If the couple cannot explore and find a new and more satisfying way of life, some people who are unwilling to be lonely will look for a moment outside. of joy.

3. Pay attention to respecting your spouse’s feelings

If there are too many quarrels between husband and wife, as the saying goes, "big quarrels happen all the time, but small quarrels happen every day", it will hurt the relationship and create a gap. "Sorrow is greater than heartbreak." When one party suffers from hurt and reaches the point of being intolerable, it will cause him or her to lose confidence in the marriage.

4. Handle sex life correctly

Improper handling of sexual life between husband and wife can also sow the seeds of sin for an affair. In this regard, women seem to have more responsibilities. Generally speaking, men have a stronger desire for sex than women. Sometimes, in order to get the opportunity to have sex, they have to compromise in front of their wives. Some women discover this secret and use sex life as a means to blackmail and restrict each other. But just when they are complacent, boredom and disgust are quietly rooted in their husbands' consciousness.