It is very important to do good foreplay during sex, mainly because women have a slower sexual impulse and need to be stimulated slowly. So, how to do good foreplay for sex?

Four foreplays can help "sex"

1. Flirting between men and women in sexual life can stimulate and enhance sexual desire: provocative love words can not only harmonize feelings, but also catalyze the development of passion.

2. Kissing is the most direct way to express sexual love: Kissing is a manifestation of emotional sublimation and an extremely convenient form of enjoying sexual experience. There is rich nerve distribution around the lips, and a deep kiss can cause pleasure for both parties. The form of kissing is not just a lip kiss, it can also be two mouths facing each other, two mouths touching each other deeply, or two tongues licking each other.

3. Hugging can stimulate sexual excitement: Hugging is more intimate because there is extensive skin contact, which is of great significance in improving sexual excitement. Hugs have different methods, time, and intensity. They can be whole-body or specific parts of the body, such as arms, thighs, neck, etc. The degree of sexual excitement can also be reflected from the attitude of hugging. In the beginning, the intensity is often lighter and the contact is less. As the sexual desire increases, the hug often becomes tighter and tighter. The contact area changes from local to whole body, and the man and woman seem to be fused together. Due to nervousness and excitement, breathing becomes rapid and the body will tremble.

4. Touching is an important method of sexual foreplay: In order to stimulate the passion of both men and women, touching and caressing the spouse's whole body is an essential step. This is the embodiment of body language in sex. The human body, especially women, has many parts called "erogenous zones". These parts are rich in nerve endings and are very sensitive to touch. When touched and caressed by the body of the opposite sex, they will produce a high degree of sexual pleasure.

These 4 things not to do during sex

1. Don’t compare your lover with others

When two people are affectionate, never make comparisons, such as "You have a very good figure, only slightly worse than a certain movie star", "Among the people I know, you are the best"...even if you are Compliment the other person sincerely. If it is of a comparative nature, it can easily cause misunderstandings and make the other person feel that you are thinking of someone else during sex, which will make them feel awkward.

2. Don’t just focus on sexual intercourse and ignore emotional communication

Sex is inseparable from life and requires a good emotional foundation. If two people do not have any emotional communication and only want to obtain pleasure through sexual stimulation, not only will it be difficult to achieve climax, but they will also doubt each other's purpose and become increasingly repelled by sex.

3. Don’t be superstitious about pornographic movies

Learning sexual skills or theories from pornography is inherently wrong. Most of the pornographic movies and TV dramas use exaggerated and deductive methods, which can only be used as a spice for sexual life. If they are imitated blindly, it is likely to be counterproductive, reduce sexual desire, and cause sexual frigidity in women.

4. Never multitask

Obviously you are lingering with the other person, but you still have to look at your phone, watch TV, and even think about working from time to time. When the other person is affectionate, such behavior is easily discovered, which can discourage the other person and even lead to quarrels.

Two sex techniques that make women "beg for mercy"

1. Touch her arm to make her relax her guard

In those romantic movies, men and women embrace each other affectionately before making love. The man takes her into his arms from behind to give her a sense of security, and then gently touches her arm to make the woman relax. After the woman relaxes a little, the man will gently kiss her shoulders with his lips. In fact, this is the most basic move to "attack" the arm. We can perform it on the front of the woman, allowing you to attack the chest or lower the waist.

2. Blow her armpits gently to make her feel itchy

You must know that the skin we usually "hide" is actually the most sensitive. The armpits are like this, very sensitive. The skin here is extremely thin, with pores and sweat veins gathered, and the armpit hair is as sensitive as pubic hair. A gentle blow can make people itchy or even laugh, and the touch is 100% pleasurable.