"One-night stand" is a foreign term, but to most Chinese people, it is no longer an unfamiliar concept. Today at the end of the century, "one-night stand", a thing that could only be seen in movies and television before, is now being performed around us.

It is understood that there is currently no authoritative organization in China that has conducted a statistical survey on "one-night stands", but "one-night stands" have become a social phenomenon. Before the reform and opening up, Chinese people had always been ashamed to speak out. In recent years, as people have had more and more contact with the outside world, some people have gone from one extreme to another. It is reported that special "one-night stand" parties once appeared in Shanghai and Shenzhen, organizing some white-collar youths to carry out "one-night stand" activities, providing them with venues and creating conditions. Coincidentally, there is a dance hall in Qiaotou Town, Dongguan City, which is a "paradise" for migrant workers to have "one-night stands" and is famous far and wide. On November 19 last year, the dance hall was investigated and punished by the local government.

Unique "fast food" for white-collar workers

From what I have come into contact with and heard of, most of the people who have had or yearned for "one-night stands" are people with a relatively high level of education. Experts say that "one-night stands" do happen more often to people with higher academic qualifications. First, because this phenomenon is mainly spread online, which determines the limitations of its audience. Second, the more highly educated people are, the more they can find a theoretical basis for their behavior. They can plausibly excuse their behavior to seek psychological balance.

Experts expressed their opposition to "one-night stands". He believes that in a sense, the phenomenon of "one-night stand" is a kind of human degradation, a manifestation of regression to physiological needs. Faith is missing, ideals disappear, and the level of needs is lowered. The rise of low-level taste into dominant taste is the inevitable result of desireism.

Psychology experts point out that among the people they come into contact with, most of those who have "one-night stands" are white-collar workers. The reason is that most of these people get married relatively late. Some are afraid of getting married, fearing that marriage will bring them a lot of trouble, but they also need sex, so they look for sexual partners; some are because of big changes in their lives, such as being in Beijing today and Shanghai tomorrow, and they cannot establish a stable marriage, so they will choose freedom. Way. This is the impact of lifestyle.

What was brought and what was lost

There is no doubt that "one-night stand" can bring physical pleasure to both men and women, and can relieve the pressure and mental tension in life. But the various negative consequences it brings at the same time cannot be ignored.

The proliferation of "one-night stands" will inevitably lead to the proliferation of sexually transmitted diseases. According to a survey in Hong Kong, due to the sudden nature of "one-night stands", most men and women do not take necessary safety measures when having relations, which makes The possibility of contracting sexually transmitted diseases is greatly increased. The United Nations Health Organization announced a shocking statistic in late November last year: the number of people infected with AIDS worldwide has reached 36 million, and there is an upward trend, of which Asia accounts for 1/6, while previously maintaining "zero AIDS" "Recordedly, since the first case of AIDS was discovered in China 15 years ago, the situation in China has not been optimistic.

In addition, "one-night stands" have a new impact on people's sexual concepts and also bring crises to the traditional family model. The family is the most basic form of social structure, and family stability is one of the necessary conditions for social stability and prosperity. The essence of "one-night stand" is infidelity to a spouse, which is a subversion of the traditional family model. The ultimate result of "one-night stand" is to affect the stability of society.