Affected by the media or many love action movies, many men believe that "the more times you have sex, the stronger your representative ability". Conquering women and giving them the most pleasure during sex is also a way for men to live confidently. one. So along with this wrong consciousness, the more times a man can have sex in a night, the more a man's self-esteem and self-confidence will be most satisfied. So is this idea really correct? It may disappoint men. Too much blind pursuit of frequency of sex may not meet the needs of women. Frequent sex of low quality will in turn cause tragedies such as premature ejaculation and impotence in men.

Having more sex does not mean high-quality sex

Case: My husband wants me to have “30 orgasms” every night

Since the National Day last year, Wei Lin got married to Ah Ling, and Wei Lin has quickly taken over the "leadership" position at home. No matter how interested Ling is, she has to complete her "homework" every night. When chatting with friends about bedtime affairs, Wei Lin proudly said how many times he "did it" last night...

At first, A Ling thought that her husband had finally finished the love marathon, and "having sex" was mostly an expression of love and a normal need of a man, so she still tried her best to cooperate. But the honeymoon period was over, but Wei Lin still continued to do it as frequently as before, even requiring Ah Ling to count 30 "orgasms" every night before he would give up. At first, A Ling could only "pretend to have an orgasm" to deal with it, but later she became tired of coping and started to shirk it. Gradually, their faces were filled with unhappiness, and the originally harmonious family atmosphere began to become tense. Aling even thought to herself, why is her husband so inconsiderate? He only thinks about that thing. Does he treat me like an animal? However, Wei Lin believed that this was her husband's legitimate right. Besides, since she was so strong, she didn't need to replenish her body or eat "*". Shouldn't she feel lucky to have found such a strong man? A Ling's lack of cooperation did not affect Wei Lin's "preference". However, the good times did not last long, and Wei Lin gradually felt that he had become "powerless". Sometimes, there was no movement at all in his lower body. Only then did Wei Lin, who was uneasy, realize that he should go to the hospital for treatment.

Frequently thinking about "having sex" is mostly due to poor sex quality

According to Zhou Shaohu, deputy director of the Andrology Branch of the Guangdong Provincial Medical Association and associate professor of the Andrology Department of the First Affiliated Hospital of Guangzhou University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, young people are in a period of vigorous physical and sexual function, and their refractory period (within a certain period of time) Even if stimulation is given again, no reaction will occur) is relatively short-lived, and most people can repeat sexual intercourse many times. But in addition to physical factors, another important factor that determines the length of the refractory period is the quality of sexual life!

In fact, sexual life is a process of "releasing" sexual energy. When the sexual life is short and of poor quality, the sexual energy accumulated in the body has not been completely "released", and the body has a need to discharge the "surplus" energy. Therefore, the refractory period at this time is relatively short, and it is easy to have the urge to have sex again. In a long and high-quality sexual life, because the accumulated sexual impulse energy is completely "released", the body has no need for sexual life again. What is most needed at this time is rest and recovery of the sexual system, and the refractory period is relatively long.