The wedding night, with flowers and candles in the bridal chamber, is the most unforgettable moment in life. After sending away their relatives and friends, the bride and groom enter the bridal chamber and begin their wedding night life, truly entering another stage of life.

For women, the impression of sexual intercourse on the first night is very important. If there is not enough emotion and there is only violent sexual intercourse, it will not be a happy memory, but like going through a violent storm, and the disappointment can be imagined. Known. Maybe in the future she will mistakenly think that men are just "sexual animals". If in the world of two people, they can spend the time with deep affection and emotion for the first time, it will be of great benefit to the love and sweetness of their future married life.

For men and women who have no experience in sexual life, they often encounter some unexpected problems during their first sexual life. If they do not know enough about sexual knowledge in advance or lack psychological preparation, both parties will feel disappointed and unhappy, and may even Affect the relationship and future life of both parties. Here are some problems you may encounter during your first sex life:

When sexual intercourse is painful, the woman is often eager and timid, eager to try and ashamed. Some people are too nervous mentally, find it difficult to relax physically, and even become stiff. Pain is usually caused by the rupture of the hymen, especially when the man is inexperienced in sexual intercourse, moves clumsily or is too impatient, and the penis rushes into the vagina before it is moistened, causing discomfort or pain to the woman. In fact, the pain caused when the hymen ruptures is not as serious as imagined. In many cases, the woman is overly afraid and always thinks about the word pain, focusing on preventing pain. In this mental state, even if Mild discomfort can also cause pain, and even vaginismus may occur, making the pain worse. Therefore, the man should use gentle language and care to eliminate the woman's nervousness, and his movements should be gentle and slow. The woman should also relax and try to experience the joy of sex. When in a state of sexual excitement, even if the rupture of the hymen causes slight pain, because the whole body and mind are immersed in the joy of love and affection, the feeling of pain will not be so obvious.

If the bleeding is heavy or the vulva is torn, if it is just due to the rupture of the hymen, the amount of bleeding will be very small. If the bleeding is excessive, just apply gentle pressure with gauze to generally stop the bleeding. If the bleeding is excessive and difficult to stop, the vulva may be damaged, and you should go to the hospital for examination.

Premature ejaculation, due to excessive excitement and inability to control oneself, ejaculation before the penis enters the vagina. In addition, due to lack of sexual experience, when groping for the vaginal opening, the penis will be stimulated and ejaculation will occur early. At this time, the woman should be fully considerate and not dissatisfied or complain. On the contrary, she should be gentle and caring. After a period of rest, the penis can often move again, and intercourse can be resumed at this time. Premature ejaculation on the first night is common and will naturally improve after a few sexual experiences.

Intimacy and caressing before sexual intercourse are very important steps. They can give the female body enough time to react with sexual excitement. The prelude to sexual intercourse is a necessary condition for a successful sexual life. The man should use the knowledge he has learned about sexual physiology to stimulate the woman's sexual excitement in a step-by-step manner and gradually complete sexual union.

Sex life requires learning. If you are not satisfied with your sex life for the first time, don’t make a fuss. In future sex life, as long as you master it properly, your sex life will be happy and satisfying.