Men’s psychology is actually as elusive as women’s. Although men appear to be careless and informal, the following 8 psychological weaknesses have a fatal impact on him, so please do not enter the “minefield” easily. .

Don’t step into a man’s psychological “minefield”

1. Don’t test a man often, let alone threaten to break up. When you often give him this kind of psychological hint, his subconscious mind will make plans to break up. Temptation means distrust. It is even more wrong to threaten to break up if you don't trust. On the contrary, it will make a man doubt your love for him. When a man really agrees, you are not beaten.

2. Don’t expand your rights without limit just because a man loves you. Don’t interfere with his ideals, beliefs and pursuits. Don’t think that you can see further than a man. He must have some qualities that you don’t understand. Sometimes the essence of love is transaction. A man exchanges his love for your love, rather than getting worse from you. If you mistakenly believe that a man's concession is a sign of respect for you, then your relationship is not far from death.

3. Don’t be late often. Don’t think that because a man loves you, he should have infinite patience. A person’s patience has its limits. When the patience is exhausted, it’s time to spend away the love. There is a saying: Don't wait until a man loses his patience to think of temptation. There is another saying: What China does not lack most is women. So don’t keep men waiting too long.

4. Don’t believe in the sentence “If you love me, you should know what I think.” This is completely nonsense. No one will completely know what the other person thinks. It is very foolish to conclude that a man does not love you because he did not understand your thoughts in time. I forget where this sentence originally came from, but it is often seen in Korean dramas and romance novels. You're not the woman in the plot, right? ! Likewise, I am not the man in the plot. So I don’t have the superpower to read your mind.

5. Don’t confide everything to him just because he is the person closest to you. Give him all your misfortunes, pains, grievances and complaints. Use him as an outlet. A man is not a junkyard. When he confirms that he cannot When he changes you, he has no choice but to escape. Occasionally telling your misfortunes will give you inner catharsis and gain sympathy from men. But being sentimental, worrying and being sad about things that may not happen will make men very disgusted. A partner who laughs a lot or a partner who looks unlucky, which one would you choose?

6. Don’t try to change a man. Don’t think that he will become your ideal and excellent man under your training. It is wiser to adapt to him than to change him. If you like eating apples, go find an apple. Why force a pear to turn into an apple? It's hard for him to change, and it's hard for you to eat.

7. Don’t be overconfident in your own charm. Few men will endure the temptation to go back on their word forever, and few men can come and go at once, unless this man has an ulterior motive for loving you. This is very dangerous, and a man will not intrinsically like doing this, unless he is humiliating himself to please you. If you lie to him, you have to pay attention to whether there is sulfuric acid in his cup.

8. Don’t cling to a man’s mistakes and keep citing them in every quarrel. No man likes such a woman. Men will correct their mistakes and make it up to you in other ways. This behavior is called "compensation" in psychology. The purpose is to exchange for your forgetfulness. If you are still aggressive, then men also have a psychology called "rebellion."

How to identify a man’s sexual psychology

1. Men value sex more than women

Women value love, while men value sex more. If you want to keep your husband's heart, you must maintain your lasting sexual charm. You can often tell your husband that you love him and that you are waiting for his arrival through sexy body language. Most men have sexual fantasies and always want to innovate in the way they make love. You should discuss it with him and practice it. In this way, even though you have been married for several years, it still remains novel and exciting. Remember, men always have the desire to "try new things".

2. Men hope that their sexual “talent” will be appreciated

The wife should praise her husband's sexual "talents" more often, such as praising him for his might, strength, etc. Most men find it important to maintain a strong image. If you think he is very capable in sex, he will feel that he is an extraordinary man and have more desire to "show off", which may give you a new sexual experience.

3. Men vent their emotions through sex

Men usually "don't shed tears easily" and often vent their fear, pain, pessimism and other emotions through sex. When they are in pain, sex is the only way they can feel comforted and safe.

However, although the husband has relaxed physically, the psychological tension has not eased, and the wife will definitely not get more caress from her husband.

So when you notice that your husband is approaching you when he's feeling down, try to convince him that he can tell you everything. Tell him you want to hug him and then ask him what makes him anxious so that you can feel closer together.

4. Men’s sexual life is completely different

Many women complain that their husbands close themselves off completely after sex. In fact, they don't understand that men do this just to regain control of their emotions. A man believes that he can fully express his passion only during sex. After the incident is over, he feels that he should "restore his image as a man.

5. Men don’t like to be treated like children

If you always treat your husband as a child, he will treat you as a "mother". Women often only focus on the needs of others, but ignore their own needs. At first, men also like to be taken care of, but the closer a woman is to the role of mother, the harder it is for her husband to treat her sexually.

When your husband asks you where his keys are, force yourself to answer "I don't know" and let him find them. Don't pack his things, don't make suggestions about what he should wear, treat him as a capable person and show that you fully trust him. Maybe there will be some confusion in your life at the beginning, but soon he will understand everything you do and will have a new understanding of you.