Sex life should be wonderful, especially the first sex life, which should leave wonderful memories. However, since both people are inexperienced, many problems may arise, and may even leave a shadow on the quality and harmony of the subsequent sexual life. Next, let us take a look at what you need to pay attention to when having sex for the first time.

What should you pay attention to when having sex for the first time?

1. Understand the knowledge about gender in advance

If two people have no experience at all, it is best to learn about gender knowledge in advance, including the process of sexual life, including how to do foreplay, including how to do hygiene work, etc. Only if you understand clearly, you will not understand nothing, and your sex life will be smoother.

2. Don’t be nervous

People are always a little nervous when they have sex for the first time, but being nervous can easily affect your performance in sex. If a woman is too nervous and unable to relax, her private parts will be too dry, making it difficult to enter, or it may make the whole process more painful. Men who are too nervous will affect their erection, resulting in inability to have an erection or premature ejaculation.

3. Have a relaxing environment

Sex life is a very private matter, especially when you have sex for the first time, it is best not to be disturbed by unexpected factors. It is best to have a suitable environment. The environment must be private and no one will disturb you during the session. It is best to have a romantic atmosphere, which makes it easier for people to relax, invest and enjoy sex. Never have sex in an environment where someone can interrupt you at any time. That will make both of you nervous and make things hasty for the first time.

4. Take good contraceptive measures

When having sex for the first time, I believe no one wants to get pregnant. If you really don't plan to get pregnant, you should take contraceptive measures. Some people say that you won’t get pregnant when you have sex for the first time. This statement is simply a myth. The chance of getting pregnant when you have sex for the first time is 70%. Don’t bet on luck on this matter. It’s better to stay calm. It is better to use reliable contraceptive methods to prevent pregnancy.

5. Pay attention to bleeding

When women have sex for the first time, most of the time they bleed, which is caused by a rupture of the hymen. It doesn't matter if it's just a small amount of bleeding. If the bleeding doesn't stop and you feel very painful, you should go to the hospital in time. There is another point that needs to be emphasized here, that is, not every woman will bleed for the first time. Do not judge whether it is the first time for a woman based on this. This is disrespectful to women.

6. Pay attention to cleanliness

Before and after having sex, both men and women should clean their private parts. Before having sex, cleaning is done to make sex safer and prevent bacterial infection. Doing a good job of cleaning after sex can make the body more refreshed, relieve fatigue, and help people fall asleep before going to bed.

7. Communicate well afterward

After having sex for the first time, both people are in a relatively excited state. At this time, it is best to lean on each other, communicate with each other, and talk about their feelings. Don't fall asleep immediately at this time, but consider the other person's emotional needs.

When you have sex for the first time, you need to pay attention to the above aspects, so that your sex life can be smoother, more harmonious, safer and healthier. I hope that all men and women can better master gender knowledge and ensure their own health.