Don’t be nervous about having sex for the first time. Newlyweds should take 4 measures
When newlyweds have sex for the first time, they may lack a certain amount of experience, so they have not made corresponding preparations, which will affect the quality of their sex life. Both husband and wife must not be too nervous and choose the right partner. measures to deal with it.
What measures should newlyweds take?
1. Try to choose condoms for contraception
For newlyweds, if they have no physiological needs, they should take contraceptive measures in advance. If you do not wear a condom or take birth control pills during sex, people will not be able to concentrate during sex, thus affecting the quality of their sex life.
You may wish to prepare condoms or female contraceptive pills in advance, so as to dispel their worries, so that they can focus all their attention on sex life, improve the quality of sex life, and enjoy the pleasure.
2. Treat premature ejaculation correctly
When men have sex for the first time, they will inevitably be overly nervous and excited. Coupled with the lack of certain sexual knowledge, premature ejaculation will occur. As a woman, you must give a certain amount of forgiveness and understanding. In fact, this is not premature ejaculation. As the number of sexual intercourse increases and sexual knowledge increases, the couple can return their sexual life to normal by actively cooperating.
If a newlywed couple fails to have sexual intercourse for the first time, they may suffer from short-term premature ejaculation or impotence. Do not blame or ridicule them too much. You should provide more comfort, so as to help eliminate negative emotions.
3. Pay attention to personal hygiene so that you can have sex
When newlyweds have sexual intercourse for the first time, both husband and wife should use warm water to thoroughly clean the genital area. The wedding day will make the body very tired. A large number of bacteria will grow and multiply in men's smegma, and in women's vaginas. There is a large amount of secretion, and if it is not cleaned, it may affect sexual desire, and even lead to cross-infection and reproductive system diseases.
4. Husband and wife should be more considerate and cooperative
When having sex for the first time, both parties will inevitably be shy. Because of the influence of feudal ideas, women's psychology is very complicated and tension will inevitably occur. Male friends must be very gentle and must not be too rough. Women should actively cooperate and keep their spirits in a relaxed state, so that they can arouse sexual desire, increase vaginal secretions, improve its lubrication, and relieve sexual intercourse pain. feel.
If the hymen ruptures, you can use cotton wool or gauze for disinfection, and then have sex two days later to prevent inflammation of the wound. If there is a lot of bleeding after the hymen ruptures, you should go to the hospital in time.
Warm reminder
For newly married couples, it is inevitable that sexual intercourse will fail for the first time. They must not be overly nervous. Both husband and wife should communicate more and learn more knowledge about sex.