It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good. In fact, the marriage relationship is not good either. Think about it, it's like you signed a contract to sell yourself. You have to be tied to this person for decades. How can you not get tired of it? Therefore, the marriage relationship is the most difficult. Especially in this fast-developing and money-obsessed society, divorce is as simple as losing a piece of clothing.

However, what the editor wants to say is that since we are together, we must get along well. Divorce is neither fashionable nor glamorous. Remember, a happy marriage requires mutual understanding and tolerance. Just like what the "Fall in Love with Love" campaign promotes, be happy with each other and fall in love with each other. This means that a perfect marriage requires perfect love as a foundation. No matter how many conflicts there are, as long as you love him, you must give him sexual happiness.

What should a woman do to truly HOLD her man and her marriage?

Tenderness and consideration are a must

No matter how vigorous and decisive you are at work, you must be a gentle and considerate woman when you return home. Especially when a man is frustrated, he hopes to have a gentle and considerate woman to greet him. If you are not, he will go out to find such a woman.

Giving enough face is the key

Men are all about saving face. No matter how you get along when there are only two of you, outside, especially in front of his boss or friends, you must "show weakness" at the appropriate time and leave enough room for him. Only by saving face will it not damage his self-esteem, and only in this way can the marriage go a long way.

The key is to overcome strength with softness

In marriage, it is inevitable that two people will have conflicts. It’s not scary to encounter conflicts. The scary thing is that the two have been tit for tat, refusing to give in to the other, and the final result can only be an unhappy separation. The correct approach is that when there is a conflict, do not be tough with the man, but use softness to overcome force, so as not to intensify the conflict.

Enjoying life is the purpose

Although you think that your life will be long, in fact it will pass quickly. You have worked so hard to manage your marriage. What is it for? Or just to make yourself more comfortable. Therefore, in marriage, when you are tired, stop and look at the scenery along the way to let your soul settle down.