When most people who have been married look back on their sex life, they regretfully say that on the first night of their marriage, as newlyweds, they did not enjoy the pleasure they had expected due to fatigue and nervousness. The joy of a long-lasting special "first night" is even worse. Since then I have lost my passion for sex.

The 28-year-old Yang, who works in a securities company in Shanghai, put on her wedding dress on July 22. When the topic changed from the grand and lively scene of this important life celebration that she had just completed, to the sweet wedding night , a layer of blush immediately appeared on her fair face: It was nothing, it was really nothing, it seemed to have passed in a daze. Yang's wedding night really didn't have much to remember. We originally planned to travel to Thailand to get married, but due to too many friends to entertain, we changed our plans soon. So we hurriedly decorated the new house, distributed invitations, and finally arranged 720 banquet tables in a restaurant in accordance with the wishes of the two elderly people. The 22nd was a weekend. I woke up early and had no time to spare. After getting dressed and dressed, Yang was picked up by his husband and stood in front of the restaurant to greet the guests. Then came the ceremony, and then endless toasts. After a few hours, Yang had been tortured so much that his back ached, his eyes were straight, he changed his clothes, and then entered the wedding ceremony. After all the guests had left happily, Mr. Yang He fell on the bed, losing even the desire to dream.

Sichuan girl Zijing pays special attention to her wedding. Jing knows that nowadays people's sexual concepts have long been open, and it seems that not many people are pursuing whether they are virgins or not. But Jing feels that a special ceremony is still needed to receive a girl from a girl. Not for others, just for yourself. Therefore, Jing resolutely rejected several boyfriends who wanted to sleep with her not long after they met. For so many years, Jing has been guarding her chastity. She will give herself to her husband completely and solemnly on their wedding night. From the moment the wedding day was set, she had fantasized about the excitement at that moment countless times, and her expectations turned into a pond on a rainy night in her fantasies. With the longing for happiness, she devoted herself wholeheartedly to the days of preparing for the wedding. She was busy running around non-stop: from decorating the new house to choosing furniture and purchasing a dowry... she did everything personally. The most exciting moment finally arrived, but it turned out that it was not the case at all. The two fumbled around for a while, and the husband finally vented his anger, but Ke Jing had to withdraw her troops in disappointment. Thinking about it afterwards, Jing even regretted it a little. If she had known this was the case, she should have seized the opportunity when she was passionate before marriage and enjoyed her first time. Isn't there only one "first night" in a person's life?

Unable to fully enjoy the joy of their wedding night, Yang Hejing's married life had indescribable regrets. In fact, Yang and Jing did not realize that they had both violated the taboo on the wedding night: during the short or long preparation period for marriage, they overspent without any scruples, waiting until the "real day" before they had enough energy to do so. Not surprisingly, it falls short.

It is of course the best policy to preserve your strength, take rest before marriage, and adjust your diet appropriately. However, to be honest, it is inevitable that marriage will be complicated and tiring. But despite this, there are still some secrets that allow you to spend the first wonderful "bridal night" in your married life with him full of passion and sex, no matter how tired you are. of.

Continuous heating:

The wedding day is your most pampered day. Your newlywed husband will be by your side almost every second. Therefore, you cannot miss this opportunity to enhance your relationship in vain. From the moment he can see you From the first moment, your eyes should be "centered on him", look at him affectionately from beginning to end, and whisper affectionately in his ear from time to time, telling him how you feel about your happiness.

Drinks help "sex":

After entering the bridal chamber, have some of your favorite drinks first. This will not only allow you to take a break and prepare for continued efforts, but you can also play some little tricks while drinking to arouse each other's lust.

Create passion:

It would be great if you have a bathtub at home. You can first put on silk pajamas, put out the bath water, add invigorating rosemary spices to the water, soak yourself in it, and invite your lover to take a bath with you.