Sexual health care should start after the couple gets married, preferably when they are young. It is not necessary to wait until sexual function declines before starting sexual health care. Many couples don’t know where to start because there is so much knowledge about sexual health. So, what do you know about sexual health for couples? The editor of Gender Private Talk will briefly introduce some sexual health knowledge to you. I hope all my friends have safe and harmonious sex.

Common sense about sexual life that both husband and wife must understand

1. Caressing is essential work

Caressing is a matter between two people, and it is not entirely your responsibility to satisfy the other person. But if you can take into account the other person's needs, it can indeed enhance the other person's enjoyment. You know, caressing has the effect of increasing desire and accelerating happiness for both men and women. Moreover, a woman’s sex is slow-warming, and caressing can quickly activate her passion and get her into the state.

2. Natural and free sex is perfect

Some couples believe that the more you pay attention to your sexual performance during intimacy, the better your sexual performance will be. That's a big mistake. If you only think about what to do, you won't feel anything. Let everything take its course and don't analyze specific performance, but you will get the best feeling. Therefore, sex should be natural and free, without restraint or restrictions.

3. Men’s sexual function can be maintained for a long time

Gujiu hormone, which affects men's sexual excitement, is usually secreted most and reaches its peak when young. However, male sexual performance does not solely depend on physiological factors. How he feels about himself, his sexual partners, and sex will all affect how his body responds. Therefore, if older men are in good health, understand their sexual abilities, and have a partner they like, they may be able to express love better than younger men.

4. Couples must maintain sexual freshness

Lifelong partners can have long-lasting sexual relationships. Being bored is often due to a lack of understanding of the other person or a lack of deep affection. To maintain a sense of freshness, both parties can be more bold, lively and original when making love.

What are the consequences if a couple does not have sex for a long time?

1. Couples who live without sex for a long time will suffer from mental and psychological discomfort

The specific manifestations are mental fatigue, low mood, melancholy and unhappiness, etc., which may subsequently produce other adverse effects. Some people will be dissatisfied and complain about life, and lose the interest in life. Some even borrow things and people to vent their anger, have a hot temper, and are completely different from usual people.

2. Sexual organs will age without a husband and wife

As the saying goes, "Flowing water does not rot, and door hinges do not suffer from beetles." Use it or lose it, is a mantra that men usually use to describe their sexual ability. For women, just like men, the sexual organs will gradually decline if they are not used for a long time.

3. Couples who have not had sex for a long time lack the physical spirituality due to lack of sexual stimulation

They begin to lose sensitivity to each other's physical demands. This is like a pair of doubles players who haven't practiced together for a long time, so they naturally become rusty and their cooperation is no longer tacit.

4. Without the stimulation and lubrication of sexual life for a long time, don’t think that your body will become a raging fire that will ignite at a moment’s notice

Without sexual stimulation for a long time, the body becomes dull, and over time, habits become natural. We will see this kind of sadness in those women who lack sex for a long time - they are dry, unattractive and boring.

5. Long-term sexlessness has caused the inner rift between the couple to be covered up

The more asexual you are, the less you can see this inner gap. When the gap is found to have expanded during the holidays, it is often impossible to make up for it through sex.

6. A long-term sexless life is likely to lead to a situation where you treat each other like a guest

Two people are elegant and restrained, polite and respectful to each other, but the establishment of this marital atmosphere often has nothing to do with sex.

7. If women do not have sex for a long time or are not satisfied with their normal sex life, it will be extremely harmful to the body

Such as dark complexion, long spots, endocrine disorders

So, sex life is very necessary for our lives. I wish you a happy sex life as a couple!