There are too many lies between men and women

"There are too many lies in the lives of both sexes. Many women are insecure and like to get to the bottom of things. Many men have the mentality of 'one thing is worse than one thing less'. Try to deal with it, but even if it is a white lie, it is no less destructive to the relationship between husband and wife than a real lie. "Director Hu Shenzhi of the Guangzhou Sunflower Psychological Counseling Center said that an intimate attachment relationship must be based on sincerity and trust, "This is. Just like a bank, overdraft of trust will only lead to a decline in personal credibility, and everything you say will feel like lying."

A common white lie among couples is "the bottom line"

1. Social rhetoric.

The husband is socializing with clients, and it is clear that he is receiving a female client, but when his wife asks, she often gets the answer "he is a man" or "he looks ugly" or "there is a third party"... …

2. Mutual rescue

When the husband does not return or answer the phone, the wife calls her best friend. Many of her best friends will express tacitly as usual, "He and I are here." Together, drunk (or in the bathroom)!" Buddies come to each other's rescue.

3. Concealing consumption

The wife who impulsively buys expensive clothes may cut off the labels and tell her husband that the price is only 30% off the true price, so as not to hear complaints.

Top list of lies commonly used by men

Men often lie to their wives. Of course, men don’t have a monopoly on this, and they say, “You women tell big lies too, so you don’t have to make a big fuss.” In order for you to better understand men, these thinkers for centuries, here are the top 8 men’s lies, as well as the reasons why men lie, to truly disclose them to you.

Lie 1: "Of course, honey, that dress looks nice."

Reason for lying: to avoid arguments

Men tell this "Okay "Forgive, harmless little lie", sometimes it may be because he doesn't want to hurt your self-esteem, for example, he said: "Of course, you don't look fat in this dress." Sometimes it is also to make their own life easier, not to give it. Looking for trouble yourself.

Lie 2: "I can fix it."

Reason for lying: to maintain self-confidence

Whether it is the drainage pipe at home, the washing machine, the refrigerator, or the stereo , there are always some guys who feel that they must be proficient in everything, omniscient and omnipotent. If a man cannot repair his tool, he must lie and say that it is completely broken and cannot be repaired. Because if he admits failure and lets his partner fix it, he will feel less like a man and will never be able to hold his head up again.

Lie 3: "It's okay."

Reason for lying: I want to be alone and lick my wounds silently

Men also experience feelings of sadness, depression, and disillusionment. For women, it is okay to cry and tell the story to the one you love. But for men, a woman's sincere concern can only make him feel that his weaknesses are exposed even more. This is why when women want to share their worries with the one they love, men immediately retreat into their own shells. Please remember that for men, bleeding is glorious and refusing to use a band-aid is sacred.

Lie 4: "I called you."

Reason for lying: self-defense

They often sigh: Since we have given up for you women I have endless yearning for a wonderful and attractive single life, but I really don’t understand why you are so disappointed in us! Forgive your partner when he forgets to call you, is late for an appointment, or fails to get you cold medicine before the pharmacy closes. You always complain about some minor faults, so he can only tell little lies to deal with it.

Lie 5: “If you don’t want to have sex, I don’t want to either.”

Reason for lying: to avoid looking like a pervert

Women also like to have sex. ——But to be with the person you like, you also need to have the right mood, the right light, the right music, and even wear the right underwear. But men’s sex is not so complicated. As long as there are no physical problems and moral constraints, men can enjoy sexual pleasure at any time and anywhere. When you say you are not in the mood or feel unwell, we can only hide our inner disappointment, lest you think of us as beasts who only know how to pursue sex and do not understand tenderness and romance.

Lie 6: "Baby, I am the best."

Reason for lying: to make you feel that you are worth marrying

Men are describing them Their bravery and strength, their adventures, or their prominent position in their work are often exaggerated. The reason why they do this is just to remind you that you are marrying the right person. More importantly, men whitewash their resumes in order to constantly remind themselves of their questionable machismo. Men can't stand being on the bandwagon level - working a bandwagon job and being paid a bandwagon salary. Especially those extraordinary men we see on TV commercials every day. Talking big words is just to make yourself feel better. If he tells you "I forced them to fire me," you don't have to take it seriously!

Lie 7: "My past girlfriends? That's all."

Reason for lying: Self-protection

Do wives have the right to know the truth about our past girlfriends? How good is she? How beautiful is she? When men with a strong sense of privacy face such a problem, you can imagine how perfunctory they are. Men also understand the importance of honesty, but we are talking about big things. There are some questions we don't want to answer because we feel stripped naked if we have no privacy at all after we get married. And past emotions are our safest privacy zone.

Lie 8: "I will never lie to you."

Reason for lying: so that you can live happily in the future

This is what men say Romantic words to reassure women because sometimes all women really want is Hollywood movie-like dialogue. But even if he wants to do that - when we say it, we usually mean it. Can he really do it? Did he ever lie, evade, or boast? Will he keep his word on important things? It depends on what kind of person he is and how strong your marriage is. It may take a lifetime to find the answer. But one thing is for sure, he hopes for a happy and perfect ending like a Hollywood movie. And you?

In fact, honest men also lie. But most men lie out of helplessness, and there are many who are beautiful and well-intentioned. Under heavy pressure, people sometimes have to tell helpless lies. Behind the lies is a burden that men cannot bear. In this case, female compatriots should be magnanimous, follow the guidance, and take the initiative to share their worries... In an age where lies cannot be escaped, let us treat such lies kindly.

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