Pursue the so-called "new" way of love

Under the control of the trendy mentality, they quickly moved from first love to passionate love, and from marginal sexual behavior to core sexual behavior. Fascinating hugs, kisses, and caresses arouse strong impulses of sexual physiological instincts, making it difficult for reason to resist.

A survey found that 44.67% of women had had multiple sexual relations within six months, 50.33% of them expressed willingness, and 80.33% believed it was a personal matter.

According to my country's sexual ethics, the most intimate form of sexual behavior between men and women during love can only be kissing, snuggling, and caressing. Sexual intercourse can only occur under the condition that the marriage relationship is protected by law. Random "fashionable" behavior is a sign of a lack of responsibility.

Advocating various concepts of sexual freedom

Some young women think, "Now that they are mature, satisfying their own desires is a physiological need." Some say, "As long as you love happily," others say, "There is nothing to be afraid of when you are pregnant. Sex is not sinful." "Women A woman is not complete without having an abortion.”…

In the survey, 32.67% of women believed that "chastity is not very important," and 19.7% did not care at all after sexual intercourse, saying "that's all," and so on. As soon as their ideas change, their behavior changes accordingly. When their love is still at a stage where they don't know how to control the boat of life rationally, they are burned by desire and have sexual intercourse that should not happen prematurely. Some have relationships with their boyfriends periodically, and some have a premonition that they will never get married, but their special relationship remains as good as ever. Distorted sexual concepts make distorted sexual behavior out of control, resulting in "irresponsible consequences."

Satisfy the curiosity and exploration of "sex"

In today's cultural environment, sex has gradually been stripped of its veil. For some young women, it is no longer that they are "disloyal" and ashamed to talk about sex, but that talking about sexual desire is as easy and normal as talking about appetite. However, due to the fact that many books and periodicals focus on the introduction of sexual organs and sexual life content, there is a lack of education on sexual psychology and sexual ethics. In addition, there are an increase in sexual aesthetic scenes in movies and television, and the phenomenon of hugging and kissing on the road and street is often reflected. As you can see, this kind of cultural atmosphere deepens and actualizes the hazy awareness and curiosity about sex in girlhood. From the original ignorance of male sexual physiology, why two sexes are full of sweetness when they are alone together, and how to get pregnant after sexual intercourse. Things, etc., have developed to the point where we are no longer satisfied with what is introduced in books and periodicals and what we witness on the film and television screen, on the streets, in the entertainment industry, and under the moonlight. Instead, we have to try and explore for ourselves, so that during the period of love, we sometimes take the initiative to curiously Make or refuse a man's sexual request. The survey shows that 64.3% of women had sexual intercourse out of curiosity, only to regret it when they had to abort the pregnancy.

I am grateful for my boyfriend’s admiration and love for me

Although they also understand that women's chastity is very important and should never be sacrificed easily, but under the constant agitation of their boyfriends' admiration and love, they cannot hold on to their defense line. Some may have boyfriends who are more attentive to them and have greatly helped them in their study and life, or they may have made great sacrifices because their boyfriends have solved many difficulties for their relatives. I often feel uneasy and feel grateful to repay my gratitude. When a boyfriend makes a sexual request, he is worried that rejection will hurt his heart, so he takes satisfying his sexual request as a reward for his deep affection. This type of situation accounted for 18.3% in the survey.

Eliminate your boyfriend’s worries about yourself

Some women feel that their boyfriend meets their requirements for mate selection and is an ideal "beautiful man". They fall in love at first sight and have a feeling of "there is no such shop in this village", and they take the initiative in the love process. However, for some men, the more proactive the woman is, the more he thinks too highly of himself, and even feels worried about the woman, becomes overly cautious, and has an ambiguous attitude. In order to show their sincerity, some women hurriedly commit themselves to each other, and some, in order not to be abandoned by their men, also adopt this so-called "can tie up a man's heart" and "lock in love with sex" which is immature and unwise. A clumsy act.

Upgrade love relationships

Many young women regard "sex" as a measure of love and believe that only sex can maintain and develop love. Some people believe that having sex before marriage is a procedural requirement of love and a necessary step. If it happens early, the relationship can be confirmed early, the love can be upgraded and deepened, and the cohesion of both parties can be strengthened. Under the control of this idea of ​​​​sexuality, they give all of themselves too quickly.

Understand your boyfriend’s sexual function

Research points out that this type of motivation is more common among older, unmarried people. They deeply feel that it is difficult to choose a spouse, and they also hope to be happy after marriage, so they are cautious about marriage. They are willing to have sexual intercourse with their satisfied lovers before marriage to understand each other's sexual function.

Resist environmental resistance

Research points out that this type of motivation is more common among older, unmarried people. They deeply feel that it is difficult to choose a spouse, and they also hope to be happy after marriage, so they are cautious about marriage. They are willing to have sexual intercourse with their satisfied lovers before marriage to understand each other's sexual function.

In exchange for vanity

This is the reverse effect in the psychological development of love. Young men and women in love, after some understanding and confirmation of a love relationship, always hope to get support and approval from people in the surrounding environment, especially parents, relatives and friends.

However, if they encounter unexpected and violent interference, interference from others, strong opposition from parents, and obstruction by relatives and friends in every possible way, they not only do not terminate the love relationship, but become more enthusiastic and closer, resisting these resistances with the fait accompli of "raw rice, cooked rice" , promote the success of love.