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6 common mistakes men make during sex. How should men and women divide labor during sex?

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Sex life has many benefits for both men and women, so it has always been treated as a sacred thing by everyone. Of course, only a clean and appropriate sex life will be beneficial to our body. Because men often obtain sexual knowledge from erotic movies, it is easy for men to make many mistakes in their sexual lives. So, what are the most common sexual mistakes men make during sex? How should men and women divide labor in the sexual life of a couple?

6 common mistakes men make during sex

Mistake 1: I know how to please a woman

Men often believe that what works for one woman will work for all women. Every woman's sexual desire type is unique. For example, women have different needs for the frequency and depth of penetration during intercourse. The intensity of sexual pleasure in intercourse positions is also related to the size and shape of the male organ and the woman's figure, so it cannot be generalized.

Mistake 2: We don’t need to discuss sex

Many couples don’t know the appropriate words to use to describe sex. It is recommended that men use some neutral words to ask each other, such as "faster" or "harder", "how does it feel to stimulate this place", etc. In addition, couples can say a little dirty words, which can enhance the pleasure of sex.

Mistake 3: Sex and love can be separated

The reason why sex is called sex is because sex and love are closely combined. Sex is not something that can be enjoyed alone. When you are confused about sexual incompatibility, ask yourself whether you have given the woman a sufficient sense of security. In addition, women's sexual desire comes slowly and ends late, while men can be passionate in an instant. An impatient man may ruin the experience because of poor timing.

Mistake 4: The purpose of intercourse is to reach climax

Men tend to divide sex into three stages: erection, foreplay, and penetration. The ultimate goal is orgasm. In fact, climax is a very random thing. A true sexual experience goes beyond organ stimulation. The human body is like a sexual map, and every area has the potential to enhance sexual desire. If you do enough homework in this area, even if both parties do not climax in the end, you will still have a very happy sexual experience.

Mistake 5: All she wants is me

Many women don't mind sex toys, but they can hurt a man's self-esteem. In fact, it has become a trend for couples to use sex products. For example, it is impossible for men to provide as long-lasting and concentrated stimulation as vibrators. Men must learn to accept these auxiliary devices.

Mistake 6: A woman’s lower body being wet proves she has sexual desire

Sometimes men find that a woman's vagina is not lubricated enough and think she has no sexual desire. When a woman has sexual desire, her vagina does not necessarily become wet. Some women's vaginas are naturally wetter than others. Even within the same person, moistness levels can be affected by time, stress, medications, and menstrual cycles.

How should men and women divide labor in the sexual life of a couple?

Who should initiate sexual activity? Some couples are accustomed to the division of roles. Some husbands believe that they should be responsible for their wives’ sexual needs. Therefore, “No matter when and where she asks, I will satisfy her and never refuse her.” There are also husbands. They believe that sex is decided by men, and as long as they are happy, their wives will be satisfied, without considering the mood and physical conditions of both parties at that time. This is the result of being overly restricted and restrained by the division of roles.

In fact, there should be a certain division of labor in sexual life, but it cannot be overly limited. The most important thing is mutual understanding and respect. We must strive to mobilize our own sexual initiative, explore each other's sexual potential, and understand each other's sexual sensitive zones, suitable postures, foreplay methods and other factors through candid communication, so as to make both parties happy. sexual needs are met.

Although when the sexual needs of both parties are consistent, there will be a certain regularity in sexual life, but it is not constant. It changes with the mood of both parties, the strength of sexual desire, physical condition, environmental conditions and other factors. As for changes, there should be an adjustment mechanism to achieve an appropriate balance between the satisfaction of both parties.

Generally speaking, when the husband is young, the wife can cool down the overheated sexual response by changing the environment, distracting attention, etc.; while when the wife is young, she needs her husband to talk about love, hug frequently, etc. to help heat up her sexual response. Find out the "sexual pulse" of both parties to achieve a harmonious sexual life.

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