In most people's minds, men are synonymous with being strong, but under heavy pressure, there are times when even "tough guys" cannot hold on. A male study in the United States found that 1/3 of adult men have sexual anxiety problems. The main cause of male sexual anxiety is too much and too heavy "sexual burden", which is mainly reflected in the following aspects.

First of all, men are forced to take on too much "work" in their sexual life. In the eyes of a woman, a sexually qualified man must know how to be charming and romantic, but also be skillful and proactive; he must give her gentle foreplay, and he must know how to attack powerfully; he must bring her to climax, but he must not Lack of tenderness afterward... Sex life is a matter between the couple. If the woman always enjoys it passively and lets the man bear everything, the husband will feel invisible pressure. Occasional mistakes can also make them anxious, worrying that something is wrong "out there."

Secondly, some unintentional nagging from wives will bring burden to men and extinguish their sexual desire. "My colleague's husband earns twice as much as you every month" "I do all the hard work at home and outside the house, you are really useless." These will invisibly increase the pressure on a man and make it difficult for him to have sexual interest. During sex, some words from women are more likely to hurt men. For example, if a man asks: "Is this good?" and his wife says, "It's okay" or "You can't do it anymore," this may cause psychological problems for men and even cause sexual intercourse. Erectile dysfunction.

Again, high work pressure and busy schedule prevent men from concentrating on sex. In "Abnormal Psychology" written by the famous American psychologist Lauren B. Alloy, it is pointed out that being too busy at work, pressure for promotion, and socializing with alcohol and tobacco will make men have no time to care about sex. Huge life pressure can bring about anxiety, making men unable to concentrate on sex.

Finally, financial problems and reduced income will bring sexual burdens to men. A large British survey found that people with higher incomes pay more attention to sex and have higher frequency and quality of sex life. If a man is in trouble financially and the woman is too strong, the man will feel like a failure and will naturally lose confidence during sex.

In this case, women must no longer act as a destroyer of a man's sexual ability, but should help him "reduce his sexual burden." On the one hand, women should be more proactive during sex and feed back their good feelings to him in a timely manner. On the other hand, neither spouse should confuse work success with family life. Try to say as few words as possible that undermine a man's self-confidence. Finally, take time off, travel together, and relive the feeling of love.