Women who cannot get sexual satisfaction and experience orgasm during sex will face physical and mental damage.

Nearly 70% of women take a natural attitude towards sexual frigidity, and less than 20% think it is a disease and seek medical treatment. Under the influence of Eastern cultural traditions, the vast majority of domestic women do not express their true feelings about their sexual life experience in words, and often express themselves in words such as being irritable, irritable, or becoming silent, depressed, etc. way to vent or protest. In this case, it is difficult to say that family life is perfect and happy.

Psychologically, because the instinctive sexual physiological impulse energy cannot be properly vented, and the mental excitement cannot be relaxed and relaxed, many women have suffered from neurosis. According to research, 80% of some neuroses, such as cardiac neurosis, general weakness, body aches, neurasthenia, and insomnia, are related to unsatisfied sexual desire.

In addition, according to experts, if women cannot achieve sexual satisfaction, their sexual physiological responses will be blocked, and the congestion in the pelvic cavity and external genitalia will not subside in time, resulting in chronic pelvic hemorrhage. The uterus of women who cannot get sexual satisfaction for a long time and have chronic pelvic hemorrhage will increase 2-3 times. In the long run, women are prone to a series of gynecological inflammations such as vaginitis, endometritis, and chronic pelvic inflammatory disease.

The long-term lack of sexual satisfaction for women is very harmful

The main reason is that the husband only cares about himself:

There are many reasons for women’s sexual frigidity , overwork and disease will all affect people's sexual desire. In addition, there are also mental and psychological factors, such as receiving wrong sex education at a young age, and various insecurities and fears left over from certain sexual experiences.

A more important reason is that both husband and wife do not understand the sexual physiological and psychological characteristics of men and women. In particular, husbands do not understand the differences in sexual responses between men and women and tend to ignore warmth, so that their wives cannot experience pleasure and climax during sex, and naturally feel boring and uninterested in sex. According to a foreign statistic, more than 75% of men reach climax and ejaculate 2-6 minutes after the beginning of sexual intercourse, and enter the refractory period, and then sexual intercourse ends; while most women require 8-15 minutes for intercourse. to reach orgasm. This sexual and physiological imbalance between men and women is the enemy of a harmonious sexual life, and is often one of the important causes of various sexual psychological and sexual physiological diseases.

In addition, unhappy marriages, tension, depression, anxiety and other emotions will also affect the generation of sexual desire.

Experts believe that excluding diseases, the root cause of female sexual frigidity often lies in psychological factors, especially in the disharmonious sexual life. The biggest difference between women and men is that men are visual animals and can usually have sexual desire with visual stimulation; while women are more verbal animals and need sweet words to stimulate feelings before they can have sexual desire. The spouse's lack of understanding and indifference is often the root of the problem.

Expert advice

As a man, when your wife has some sexual function problems, you should work with her to find out the real cause of the psychological disorder and provide step-by-step treatment. solve. In addition, you should take the initiative to seek medical treatment to distinguish whether it is a physiological problem or a mental illness, so that timely treatment can be achieved. For female patients with frigidity, the support and cooperation of their partners is the basis and key to treatment.