For most men, sex is a kind of enjoyment, the beginning of passion and the end of happiness. However, some things in men's sex can make men unhappy, lack passion, or even bored, leading to good and bad sex life. What kind of thing is it? Let’s find out together:

Why is the quality of sex sometimes good and sometimes bad

Some wives are confused about their husbands’ sexual function. So what is the reason? Sexologists at home and abroad believe that this is closely related to whether the sexual life between couples is harmonious and is also the crux of the problem.

According to survey research, among married people, on average, both parties (especially the woman) have sexual satisfaction once in two sexual intercourses, accounting for only 1.2%; on average, sexual satisfaction occurs once in three sexual intercourses. Only 20.6% of people are satisfied. Most people claim that having a satisfactory sex life once in several times is considered very good.

The pursuit of sexual harmony between couples is understandable, but the characteristics and differences of both parties exist objectively. For example, the husband's sexual excitement comes and goes quickly, usually about 2 to 6 minutes, and then subsides quickly; the wife's excitement is slower, usually about 10 to 30 minutes. But it lasts longer and fades slowly. The husband's needs are mainly concentrated on the sexual organs, while the wife's needs are not only reflected in the sexual organs, but also can be satisfied through language, touch, hugging, kissing, etc.

In order to have a harmonious sexual life between a couple, there must be foreplay before entering into intercourse, which is called sexual induction in medicine. It is mainly to increase the sexual excitement of both parties. It takes about 1/3 of the whole process~ 1/2 to shorten the difference between the two. The husband should give more touch or use words as stimulation, and the wife should also adopt a proactive attitude.

Disharmony in sexual life should be regarded as normal, encourage and comfort each other, and build confidence. Do not doubt, complain or blame the other party to prevent hurt feelings and affect the improvement of the quality of your sexual life. I wish you good health.