Nowadays, men and women have become more open-minded about sex issues. Few couples insist on having sex until after marriage. Most of them choose to live together while they are still in love. The first time a man and a woman go to bed is usually the man who takes the initiative. On the one hand, Physiological needs, and men want to prove something. Going to bed does not mean that he has decided to marry you, so a woman must understand when she gives herself.

1. Determine whether the other party is a virgin

Although people no longer test each other's virginity on their wedding night as in the past, almost every man hopes to marry a virgin, and there are still many men who have a virginity complex. Based on this complex, to ensure that they can find a virgin to take home, some men will rack their brains and rack their brains, regardless of the woman's repeated objections and rejections, and ask for "a trial."

If the test shows that the other person is a virgin, everyone will be happy, and their worries before marriage are dispelled; if the test shows that the other party is not a virgin, they can make plans again, or even avoid breaking up. In short, they are not allowed to take any risk to marry a non-virgin. The more open the society is and the fewer virgins there are, the more they want to take this "reassurance pill".

Maybe you would say that a man’s virginity complex is understandable and even worthy of mercy. But it is always the man who benefits and the woman who is harmed. Yes, a man can test that the woman is a virgin, but there is no guarantee that you will get married. For a woman after a breakup, she will no longer be able to successfully pass the test of her next boyfriend. This is unfair to the woman. . Therefore, for the sake of protecting themselves, women must be cautious when men propose premarital sex.

2. Experiment on yourself

In contemporary society, due to environmental pollution, food pollution and other reasons, many strange diseases have developed. Of course, there are many diseases among men and women. The men's and gynecology departments in many hospitals are busy all day long, and many people struggle with infertility diseases all day long.

When a man proposes sex before marriage, it may not be entirely to test you, but it is also a test for himself. When a man proposes sex before marriage, he wants to test whether he can have an erection in front of you. If he can't even achieve this erection, does he still dare to propose marriage? Don't think that men must have rich sexual experience. There are also many men who don't dare to face their own problems and still stick to it conservatively.

3. Intrigued and impatient

Most men who have never experienced sexual intercourse cannot be considered mature. Because they cannot feel from some detailed feelings and exchanges how a woman should be caressed by a man. This kind of caressing is done and not done, whether it is debauchery or patience, whether it is gentle or brutal.

For a woman who is not married to you, and has not thought about it yet or is unwilling to give her body to you, perhaps the only thing she can do is caress, considerate and be patient.

In our opinion, if this is achieved, it is even more of a kind of love. It is this kind of love that makes them rational, capable of suppressing Fang Gang's interest, capable of being patient despite pressure, and becoming Being able to weigh desires and responsibilities, and the maturity behind this is far more reliable, long-term, and powerful than the maturity gained through sex alone.

4. You think you can only truly love him if you give it to him

There is a popular saying nowadays - if you love him, give it to him. Do you think that when a woman falls in love with a man, she must give her body to him, and this giving must be before marriage, when he cannot give her any guarantee at all?

Ever since, in order to test whether a woman really loves him, a man proposes premarital sex to see if a woman really loves him. But is this unfair? If you really love her and want her, then treat her well, treat her sincerely, solve all her worries, dispel any worries in her heart, and make her give it to you willingly and without hesitation.

5. Test sexual harmony after marriage

Nowadays, the divorce rate remains high, and a large part of the reason is due to the lack of sexual happiness and disharmony in marriage. So, men go out in search of excitement and novelty. In order to test the harmony after marriage, men propose premarital sex.

However, the harmonious sexual life of a man and a woman cannot simply be verified from the short-term cohabitation before marriage, because everyone has different menstrual cycles, and the living environment and work pressure are constantly changing. At the same time, the most important thing is that most of the disharmony can be made up through sexual skills.

6. Just for desire, not love at all

When a large number of men propose premarital sex, what they value more is their own pleasure during sexual intercourse. As for whether women can get pleasure, they often don't take it into consideration.

These men use marriage as bait to trick you into sleeping with them. As for the love that frequently pops out of the mouths of these men, it can make people laugh out loud. It not only taints the environment, but also taints the Holy Spirit. If a woman wants to believe these lies, she will certainly be to blame. For these men, you will only become his sexual tool, a sexual tool that can keep you around for a long time.

7. Identify the woman’s sexual experience

In contemporary society, some men pursue virgins, while others pursue sexually experienced women. These men who are experienced in pursuing sex will propose premarital sex. Only after discovering that the woman has rich sexual experience will she decide to date her.

While appraising the woman's sexual experience, they also seek to satisfy their own pleasure.

In fact, no matter what, premarital sex is still relatively harmful to women, so women must be cautious when facing these problems.