Frigidity is a common sexual dysfunction among women, and it is also one of the troubles that prevent men from having sexual intercourse. In clinical practice, we often encounter couples who have been married for many years, but the wife always avoids sexual intercourse and never achieves climax in intercourse. So, how to solve this situation?

Reasons for women’s frigidity

Wrong sexual concepts

Some women develop sexual frigidity when they grow up. This may be because they have received wrong sexual concepts since childhood. For example, they live in a very traditional family with strict elders who have always taught that sex is wrong and that a good woman should not like sex. , having sex with men is a very shameful thing, etc. When a woman has accepted this idea since she was a child and has normal sexual desires when she grows up, she will naturally work hard to restrain them. Over time, she will naturally develop sexual frigidity.

Psychological shadow

Some women have the problem of sexual frigidity, which may be because they have left a bad psychological impression on sex. The shadow exists in their hearts for a long time and they are repelled by sex. Naturally, their desire for sex will decrease. This may be due to abuse as a child.

It may also be because men were too rough in sex during the first night, leaving women with an impression of pain, torture, etc. during sex. From then on, I had no good feelings towards sex life, only fear, and then developed a repulsive mentality towards sex.

How to solve a woman’s frigidity?

Women's sexuality is based on love, and only with love can there be sex. Therefore, if there are emotional problems between husband and wife, the woman's sexual desire will temporarily decrease. This situation is classified as selective sexual frigidity. After the emotional problems between husband and wife are resolved, they will naturally disappear. There is a certain reason why a harmonious sexual life comes from a harmonious relationship between husband and wife. Healthy sex between men and women is the sublimation of feelings and is beneficial to physical and mental health. Temporary low sexual desire is not a terrible problem. Both husband and wife must be open and honest, help each other, and respect each other in order to achieve harmonious sex.

Psychological adjustment: In view of the situation where the wife is relatively restrained about sexual issues, the husband should enlighten the wife step by step and use scientific sexual knowledge to eliminate the ideological knots deep in the wife's mind. This kind of enlightenment from the husband should be expressed in affectionate words and whispers, so that the wife can truly experience a deep feeling.

The method of scientific induction refers to the specific practices during sexual intercourse. To treat the wife's female sexual frigidity, we should pay full attention to the preparation stage before intercourse, and be good at finding those methods that the wife likes and is willing to accept the most, such as kissing, touching, or stimulating the breasts and other erotic areas, which are all advisable methods. Effective and appropriate sexual induction before intercourse can completely help break through the inhibition of "sexual fetters" and stimulate the wife's sexual desire, thereby achieving the goal of "it comes naturally". If the sexual induction is very good, then sexual intercourse will be very natural.

Drug treatment for female sexual frigidity. There are many types of drugs for the treatment of female sexual frigidity. The specific treatment drugs and methods are summarized as follows: Endocrine drugs: Diethylstilbestrol 0.1-0.5 mg, taken orally once a night for 10 days -14 days; or use diethylstilbestrol tablets of 0.25-0.5 mg, inserted into the vagina; some people also use low-dose methyltestosterone treatment, 5-10 mg each time, for premenopausal women, once a day after menstruation is clear Take it sublingually and use it for 15-20 days to enhance sexual desire. The above drugs must be used under the guidance of a gynecologist to avoid side effects.

What are the foods that enhance female libido?

Pig kidney

Pig kidney is also called pig kidney. Containing zinc, iron, copper, phosphorus, B vitamins, vitamin C, protein, fat, etc., it is a food with high zinc content. Traditional Chinese medicine believes that pig kidneys are salty and have the effect of nourishing yin and replenishing the kidneys. It is suitable for women with kidney deficiency, heat, and poor sexual desire.

Hen

It is a hen that has not laid eggs. It is rich in protein, vitamin E, vitamin B, calcium, phosphorus, iron, etc. It has the function of nourishing yin and moisturizing, replenishing essence and marrow. Women with weak sexual desire are most suitable to take it.

Silky chicken

Also known as black-bone chicken. Contains vitamin B1, vitamin E, pantothenic acid, protein, fat, etc. "Compendium of Materia Medica" says that it can "replenish deficiency and fatigue, cure thirst, benefit pregnant women, and treat women with vaginal discharge, vaginal discharge, and all diseases such as weakness. Women's regular food can nourish yin and kidney yang, and improve sexual desire.

Contains collagen, fat, iodine, vitamin A, vitamin B1, vitamin D, niacin, protein, iron, calcium, phosphorus and other nutrients. It has the effect of nourishing yin and nourishing kidney, replenishing qi and replenishing deficiency. Regular consumption by women can greatly replenish yin deficiency, improve immune function, and stimulate youthful vitality.

There are many reasons for the decrease in female sexual desire, including changes in the body, age, etc. However, as long as you cooperate with psychological and physiological adjustments and conditioning, you can restore your sexual desire and restore a sexually happy life for both husband and wife!