The gap period is easy to understand. There is no lover or anyone you want to love, and the relationship is in a gap period. The concept of the empty bed period is very mysterious: if you are single and have no partner, your bed will be empty; if you have a partner but have no sexual relationship, your bed will be empty; if you have a partner but are separated from each other, your bed will be empty.

If you think about it carefully, the concept of empty bed period actually covers a very wide range: those who are single without a boyfriend have an empty bed; those who have a boyfriend but do not live together have an empty bed; those who have a partner but are separated in two places , also an empty bed. What kind of living situation is this, sleepless or free? Women who have experienced the "empty bed period" must have deep feelings. When night falls, there is only one big bed in the whole world. Loneliness slowly creeps into the heart. Will the strong shell during the day collapse at this moment...

In short, an empty window and an empty bed are two completely different concepts. The former is an emotional state, and the latter is sexual life status. No one wants to be in the "double-empty" stage of having both an empty window and an empty bed. Zhang Ailing said, "On pillows, two people are better than one."

So, some women will fall in love with one kind of pillow. Some people will complain about endocrine disorders due to exercise or a touching Korean drama, while others choose to find a temporary lover to warm their bed... So, what about you? If you have no choice but to face such a situation?

Every adult single man or woman will be in an "empty window period" emotionally at some point, searching alone and wandering around, and the body will also enter the "empty bed period". To say that you are not lonely is to say that you are not lonely. It's a lie. If you say you don't need it, it's because there's something wrong with you. The other half of the bed is covered with weeds. The coldness in your body will creep into your heart. Often at such moments, some people will put love first. Put it aside and find someone to "fill the bed" to satisfy the physical and psychological needs of that moment.

When you are emotionally alone, will you find someone to "fill the bed"? Men, most likely. , anyway, physical loneliness must be more difficult for them than mental loneliness, so they may do more than they think.

Women, most of the time, can do it, but it’s just because it’s difficult for a woman to get into the mood without a lover, and it’s not easy to get out of bed when she gets into bed, so she thinks about women a lot, but doesn’t actually do much about them. Many single men will never be idle. No matter how much they disdain women, they will still yearn for a moment of ecstasy in that "gentle country".

As a result, the grass on his bed just moved to his heart and grew wildly. Many single women just let their beds be "deserted". Even if there are dancing birds and singing songs in one half of them, the other half is filled with unspeakable loneliness and was once desolate. Moreover, many women who can accept "filling the bed" do so because they love the other person. Unfortunately, few men will fall in love with you just because they have slept with each other, and they just treat you as a gift." "Cheap", if you take it, you will take it. But it is difficult for a woman to regard going to bed as taking advantage of a man's family. As a result, she loses to the man psychologically, and her physical pleasure is compromised because of this.

"Bed filling" is not a good thing for those men and women who long for emotional warmth, and it will not be recognized by mainstream moral values, but I would rather believe that choosing to find someone to "fill the bed" All men and women have some kind of helplessness behind them, because from an emotional point of view, no one wants to treat themselves as just animals that need to be rubbed for their sexual organs to have sex. After this night, there will always be traces of spring. I don’t believe that you can always be someone else’s passerby when the sun rises. I’m afraid that sadness is inevitable, not to mention forced. If we can't stand the physical loneliness, we have to endure the greater spiritual loss. Over time, you will easily deviate from the normal emotions of men and women, and then it is not just half of the bed that will be "barren". In front of the eyes, it seems that the man is having a great time, but in fact, it is because he has determined that the woman cannot afford to play. If the woman really runs faster than him afterwards, the man will definitely be injured. Sometimes, men don't cherish it because women always don't want to let him be sad.

None of us has the right to expand the scope of morality, to control heaven and earth and to control other people’s bedtime. Single men and women are unwilling to endure the “empty bed period” of their body and it is private to find someone to “fill the bed”. Love, but you have to abide by the rules of the game, and you have to be careful about the person you want to "fill the bed" with. Otherwise, if you are too casual and your safety and health are not guaranteed, let alone being really happy, you will have to "gnaw" at the "tree in front of the house" and the "grass beside the nest", and I am afraid that you will end up being betrayed and separated from your relatives. If you continue to Colleagues or friends also get into bed, and the more "filled" the bed becomes, the emptier it becomes, and even burdens the soul.

Of course, it is always more reliable to find ways to fill the "empty window" of emotions than to temporarily find someone to fill the "empty bed". You must know that if you cannot open the window of your heart, you will not be able to let in new breath. , even if someone falls in love with your bed, it may still be a long way from love.

Guide to a happy holiday period:

1. The ability to be alone

Women in the window period must learn to be alone. Even the best friends can't be with you all the time. You must learn to eat alone, watch movies alone, and travel alone... You must learn to buy yourself flowers and diamond rings to make yourself happy. You don’t have to be in a relationship to fulfill your life and be happy alone. Don't just find someone to fall in love with just because you feel lonely.

2. A healthy body

The most fearful thing about single life is getting sick. The loneliness of having no one to take care of you can completely destroy your optimism.

Spend a few hours every week to go to the gym, swim, and play ball; occasionally go to some women's clubs to enjoy aromatherapy, SPA, massage... An investment in your body will never lose money. Only when you are physically and mentally healthy can you stay happy during the window period.

3. Intimate friends

Women during the window period must reserve more close friends.

They can go shopping and eat with you, sing and watch movies with you; they can help you get through the most lonely moments when you are single; they can arrive as soon as possible to warm you when you are in the most difficult time.

4. Hobbies that you can rely on

Belly dancing, playing killing games... Choose a hobby that can keep you active forever. Lonely? Step aside. Having a hobby not only changes your lifestyle, but also helps you meet like-minded friends. Or, will the next beautiful love be born like this?

5. Cherish your mood

Don’t be unkempt just because you are single! Dress yourself up beautifully anytime and anywhere. Bright, your beauty is not for anyone to see, your beauty is for your own good mood. Participate in a slimming treatment; take care of your skin every day; keep yourself in the best condition...

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