"What should it be like on the first night?" "Is it bound to be painful for the first time to have sex?" People with higher expectations are usually more disappointed; because "newbies are on the road", it is the first time for both men and women, and they often rush into things. Failure to enter through the right door will result in failure. For a woman who has never had sexual experience, when she comes for the first time, she is usually mixed with nervous and anxious emotions, which makes the muscles of the whole body contract and cannot enter the situation. At this time, if the man wants to forcefully cross the mountain, the vaginal opening will The tight muscles caused intense pain, which added to her fear of the first night pain. From then on, she refused to have sex and regarded it as a fearful way.

Every man’s first time may not be successful. If he is too nervous or cares too much about his performance, he will not be able to get an erection or suffer from premature ejaculation. On the other hand, if he is unable to understand or even sarcastic, his lover will never have hope from now on. "Again" is a family tragedy.

Our ancestors never forgot to include a sexology guide with pictures and texts in their daughter’s dowry. Since it was inconvenient to explain it in words, we had to follow the pictures and figure it out for ourselves. Modern parents push sex education to schools and society; so the next generation’s sex knowledge comes from comics, adult magazines and even computer networks. Is this progress or regression?

For prospective newcomers who are about to enter the auditorium, we recommend that you:

Don't look forward too much to the "bridal night". After a tiring day of ceremony and banquet, especially the groom may have been drunk by his close relatives and friends until he fell unconscious. You might as well postpone the first night until the honeymoon, so that both of you can relax and have some free time to develop a tacit understanding!

Imitate the revolutionary spirit of the French fathers and encourage and cheer each other up. Replace criticism and blame with gentleness and consideration. Once the uneasiness is relieved, the door will naturally open wide.

You might as well prepare some lubricant. Virgins are often too nervous to get enough lubrication during their first night, so using lubricant can reduce the pain of friction.

Most people cannot reach orgasm for the first time, so don’t be disappointed or think that you are sexually apathetic. In fact, it’s just that your partner hasn’t mastered the technique yet. You might as well guide him gradually or take the initiative to tell him your needs.

Everyone dreams of dancing gracefully and charmingly with Prince Charming, but in fact, most first-time dancers move their steps awkwardly and stiffly, and sometimes they hear howls of stepping on their feet. The same is true for the first sexual encounter. Instead of holding on to romantic expectations, it is better to be mentally prepared to say, "A newbie is on the road, please bear with me."