What should I do if a man is "too good" in bed? In married life, sex life can be said to be the mediator of the relationship between two people. Many couples must have sex every day just for the stimulating feeling. Impotence makes a man feel ashamed, but a husband who is "excellent" in bed is also a wife's nightmare. The editor below will introduce the reasons why men’s sex life is “too intense”!

Case: My husband and I got married not long ago, and his sexual behavior surprised me. I know that the average sexual intercourse time for Chinese men is 5 to 10 minutes, and for Americans it is 7 to 15 minutes, but for him it often lasts more than an hour. During this period, I experienced several orgasms, and I felt very satisfied and didn’t want to have any more, but he was not satisfied yet. Sometimes, when I urge him to finish early, he feels very embarrassed and says that he cannot shorten the ejaculation time.

I usually feel very tired after each session, but he is in good spirits. He is 24 years old. He has never taken any aphrodisiac drugs, but he is much stronger than ordinary men because he often does fitness exercises. Therefore, I have read many books and periodicals on sexual health, trying to find the answer, but I have never found a situation similar to my husband's. I wonder if he is not normal. Is there any technique to shorten the time of sex, because after each sex? I feel really tired.

Reason: Generally speaking, a man's sexual ability is strongest between the ages of 18 and 25. At this stage, men have frequent sexual requirements and good erections. For newly married men and women, because they are new to sexual matters, they often have frequent sexual intercourse and short intercourse time. This situation like your husband is rare. The sexual response of the male penis goes through an excitement period, a plateau period, a climax period and a subsidence period. Some men will intentionally control the sexual response in the plateau period, thereby extending the time of sexual intercourse. If they want to ejaculate quickly, they can do it, which shows that these men have Have stronger self-control ability.

There are also some men who cannot control as they wish. They often stay in the plateau period for a long time. They want to ejaculate as soon as possible but cannot, so this is delayed ejaculation. These men often require abnormal sexual stimulation to reach orgasm and ejaculate. For example, some men often pull away from the vagina after the woman is satisfied and masturbate in front of the woman to reach climax.

Sex life is a matter between two people. It is considerate for the man to appropriately extend the time of sexual intercourse so that the woman can easily experience pleasure or climax; but if the time is too long, it is easy for the woman to feel tired, which is a bit close to "tortured". To shorten your husband's ejaculation time, you mainly need to rely on his own efforts to see if he has any knots in his mind, such as showing that he is strong and deliberately suppressing it, or caring too much about the other person's satisfaction and losing his own sexual enjoyment and paying all his attention. Focus on the other person's feelings.

In addition, some organic reasons, such as penile nerve damage and drug factors (such as antidepressants, antihypertensive drugs, etc.), can also delay ejaculation, which need to be ruled out. Drawing on some methods of sexual therapy, the woman can be more proactive, such as using the woman on top to allow the man to relax and focus on enjoyment; she can also take the initiative to play with the man, stimulating him with hands and mouth to guide him into climax when he is approaching climax. The woman's body. Whether you are borrowing skills or unblocking his knot, you need to communicate well with your husband.