Professor Dong Yuzheng, secretary-general of the Guangdong Provincial Family Planning Association and sexologist (on-site photo)

The 9th National (Guangzhou) Sexuality Culture Festival’s College Student Sexuality Science Forum will be held at 7 pm on the 7th The lecture was held in a university town and the topic was "How to Correctly View Premarital Sex". Interestingly, many college students were not shy and asked various "sharp" and bold questions around the theme, which made the speaker, Professor Dong Yuzheng, secretary-general of the Guangdong Family Planning Association and sexologist, embarrassed.

When it comes to "sex", in the eyes of Chinese people, it is something that can only be understood and cannot be expressed in words. It is difficult to enter the elegant hall, let alone organize face-to-face communication and discussion among college students, but in Such a thing really happened at the 9th National (Guangzhou) Sexuality Culture Festival’s College Student Sexuality Science Forum.

It is reported that this lecture changed the past stereotype of experts speaking on stage and students listening in the audience. More than 900 college students and experts participating in the lecture allowed each other to ask questions and discuss with each other. The scene was quite heated. warm. The questions raised by college students not only involve all aspects of sex, but are also very direct and sharp. For example, a female college student asked: "When is the best time for me to give myself to a boy?" Another girl asked in confusion: "I support 'Love-Marriage-Sex', but what if you find your sex life is not harmonious after getting married? Divorce?"

Because the students' boldness and questions exceeded the experts' imagination, the experts immediately met. I was embarrassed, and for a while I lamented that it was "too challenging", and even got "stuck", which was full of embarrassment. However, the author feels that it is not a bad thing for dignified sexology experts to be "embarrassed" by students' questions. This shows at least two points. First, sex and sex education are simply unavoidable issues for college students. Second, it marks the With the sexual awakening of college students, they begin to seriously think about issues such as sex, marriage, and family, and realize the family and social responsibilities they must assume in the future. This is obviously a good thing and deserves recognition and praise.

In fact, children already know their gender roles in early childhood. By adolescence, they want to understand sexual impulses and needs even more. However, because our country is a country with thousands of years of feudal history, our ancestors have long formed the concept of self-taught sex education and passed it down orally, and have regarded this concept as a conventional social norm from generation to generation. According to legend, we are still bound and influenced by this feudal concept and tradition to this day: in schools, teachers still dare not teach sexual knowledge in depth; at home, parents are too embarrassed to discuss sexual issues with their children head-on.

Due to the long-term absence of sex education, our children have almost become "sex-blind". Whenever they encounter sex-related problems, they feel uneasy and at a loss. Not only do they burden their children with It imposes a heavy psychological burden and can easily cause physical and mental harm to children. A survey shows that teenagers account for more than 70% of people who have had artificial abortions, and more than one of them have had multiple abortions. This shows that teenagers have no idea how to protect themselves and have no idea of ​​the serious consequences of doing so. By the time they realized it, it was too late. When some college students encounter emotional entanglements, they often take extreme actions, either to retaliate against others or to commit suicide. This is actually caused by the lack of sex education. If someone clearly tells them that sexual behavior is one of the indispensable activities of human beings and must be treated calmly and objectively, and they are educated to form correct sexual concepts and morals from an early age, then what will happen to our children in this or that way? Sexual tragedies can be completely avoided.

In other words, the "embarrassment" of college students against sex experts is actually a strong dissatisfaction with the lack of sex education in schools. It is because college students want to clarify the various sexual confusions accumulated in their hearts for a long time and supplement some sexual knowledge. , and even called for normal sex education for their little brothers and sisters. Fortunately, there is recent news that Beijing, Shanghai and other places have begun to test the waters on sex education for primary and secondary school students and have achieved good teaching results. What we are looking forward to now is that the education department should see from the "囧" sex experts of college students that promoting sex education in primary and secondary schools is really an urgent task. Don't hesitate anymore, because this is by no means a simple matter. The issue of sex education is a major issue related to the healthy development of young people and the improvement of overall national quality and social civilization. It must not be taken lightly!

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