Sex life is a matter of two people. Only when both parties are passionate about it can they have a high-quality sex life. If one party feels dissatisfied, the sex life will not be able to achieve a harmonious relationship. If you want to improve the quality of your sexual life, it is very important to understand what women think about their sexual life. Let us take a look at it together.

What do women really think about sex?

1. Going straight to the topic without foreplay is a hooligan act

Foreplay is an essential process in sexual life. Only gentle and lingering foreplay can fully mobilize women's sexual desire, and women will secrete enough love fluid to facilitate men's penetration. If there is no foreplay and the entrance is straightforward, it is easy for women to be unprepared and cause vaginal dryness, which will cause women to suffer pain and naturally make them less interested in the subsequent sexual life.

2. There is no sense of security in sexual life without cleaning

Private organs should be cleaned before and after sex. It would be best if you can take a shower. Taking a shower beforehand can wash away the dirt on your body and turn the unpleasant body odor into the smell of fragrant shower gel. The most important thing is that taking a shower beforehand can prevent bacteria from being introduced into the female vagina and causing women to suffer from gynecological diseases. In addition, some people have oral sex during sex. Giving the other person oral sex without cleaning is a sign of disrespect for women. Therefore, it is best for men to take a shower beforehand to make sex safer.

3. Men who evade the responsibility of contraception are not responsible

We all know that sexual life is a matter of two people, so contraception is also the responsibility of two people. Many men think that they cannot get pregnant, so they only let women bear the responsibility of contraception. Let women take emergency contraceptive pills afterward. This kind of emergency contraceptive pill will cause damage to women's bodies, and even affect women's fertility in serious cases. If women do not take the responsibility for contraception and men do not take the responsibility, unintended pregnancies will occur and women will have to have abortions, which will also cause major harm to women's bodies. Male contraceptive measures like condoms can circumvent all this. Men cannot sacrifice women's health for the pleasure of sexual life.

4. Don’t keep asking if you climaxed

The physiological structure of women is different from that of men. Men can experience orgasm every time they have sex, while female orgasm is something that can be met but not sought. Many boys are used to asking women whether they climaxed after sex or during sex. This is a very embarrassing question. It is very uncomfortable to trick a boy into having an orgasm when he has not climaxed himself. Because it is difficult for women to undermine men's enthusiasm and self-esteem, they all pretend to have orgasms and scream, which is really tiring.

When men have sex, they should also consider women's psychological thoughts. Only by eliminating women's concerns can women be more involved and the quality of sex life will be improved.