Due to various reasons, men often lack sexual impulse, but why do they have no sexual impulse? How can we arouse sexual impulse?

Why no sexual urge

From a physical perspective, the following 10 reasons for lack of sexual impulse are the most common: the lover does not understand the skills at all, "zero skills" in exchange for "zero desire"; exhausted; too stressed; suffering from chronic diseases; drinking too much or Substance abuse; depressed mood; low hormone levels; menstruation or pregnancy; pelvic or other surgeries that damage nerves in the genital area; complete loss of feeling for your partner.

From an emotional perspective, there may be the following 10 reasons for not having sexual urges: feeling angry, frustrated or guilty about the other party; low self-confidence or lack of "sexual self-confidence"; deterioration of figure; receiving wrong sex education; Having had traumatic sexual experiences; having an unsatisfied sex life for a long time; holding a negative religious attitude towards sex life; poor communication and not having the courage to speak out about one's "sexual interests"; lack of trust in partners; taking "asexuality" as an As punishment or bargaining chip for quarreling.

Treatment of low male sexual desire from four aspects

1. Synchronously arouse sexual desire between husband and wife

Due to the psychological and physiological differences between men and women, it should be taboo that one party is already sexually excited while the other party is still indifferent; or one party has ended the sexual climax while the other party has just begun to become sexually excited.

This aspect will lead to a lack of sexual desire. It is important to understand each other's sexual desire, respect each other's feelings, and do necessary flirting activities before sex to synchronize and trigger mutual sexual desire, which is the first step in the harmony of sexual life.

2. Express your inner sexual wishes

Because of their concentrated work and busy housework, most people have no time to care about their sexual life, causing their instinctive sexual desires to silently deteriorate. Preventing low sexual desire requires mutual help from both husband and wife.

The fun of co-parenting sex. Couples who have a magic weapon can adjust the rules of their sexual life head-on and give way to their sexual life in the face of trivial matters. This can not only deepen the relationship between the two, but also make each other's passion thaw out their worries.

3. Eliminate negative psychological factors

Married life is a blend of emotion and body. Sex life without love will never be fully enjoyable. Husband and wife love each other, share joys and share worries, and the joy of husband and wife is in harmony with grace.

Modern medicine has shown that a reasonable sexual life is beneficial to physical and mental development, and people with volatile moods often understand the potential of sexual performance. Therefore, when encountering sexual incompatibility, couples should exchange their respective sexual feelings.

Helping each other to successfully eliminate negative factors in sex life is another key to preventing low sexual desire. Stimulate sensitive areas to increase sexual desire

4. Stimulate sensitive areas to increase sexual desire

For many men, sex is only associated with those secret places. In fact, if we can pay more attention to other sensitive areas on the body, it will not only reduce our stress but also add a lot of fun.

Recommended massage massage therapy

1. Pushing the testicles

After lying flat on your back, first rub your hands to warm them, then use the fingers and middle fingers of your left hand to hold the testicles on one side together, and then squeeze the testicles toward the groin. The middle finger of the right hand is placed on the pubic hair on the other side of the lower abdomen, and the testicles are pushed toward the scrotum.

The force with both hands should be gentle. It is appropriate to feel a slight swelling in the groin. Repeat this for about 20 times, and then switch hands to operate the other side.

2. Press the perineal point

After lying on your back, bend your knees, and then press the perineum point with the thumb of your right hand. Gradually increase the intensity and press it deeply. Then, press and knead it continuously for about 2 minutes.

3. Massage the inner thigh

Lie on your back, separate the thumb of your right hand from the other four fingers, and then massage the inner side of the left thigh to the knee. Move the massage side downwards, using a loosening and tightening method. The force should be gentle. From light to heavy, be consistent and repeat about 10 times. Then switch to the left rear to massage the right thigh, using the same method.