Nowadays, women's cheating has almost become a "constructive" way of life outside marriage. Women's psychology of cheating is also different. Some are to highlight their personal charm and are extremely narcissistic, while others can't help but work hard and uncomplainingly within the unspoken rules. , some are very curious as if they are following the trend.

What are the abnormal symptoms when a woman cheats?

However, women before and after cheating must have many abnormal behaviors in daily life. As long as you pay a little attention, you can fully understand. Let’s analyze it as follows:

Abnormality 1: Wear makeup carefully and bathe frequently.

Before a woman cheats on her, she will definitely try to be worthy of her own face. She must work hard and work hard. I just ask for your praise. I always bathed frequently before and after. I think one is to be fully prepared externally, and the other is to destroy traces internally.

Abnormality 2: Often work overtime and have many social activities.

Women's work and rest routines become irregular and unstable. For example, often using the excuse of working overtime as an excuse to delay going home, or often saying that you would hang out at colleagues and friends' houses, are both very dangerous signs. Especially when there are suddenly more social activities and appointments, it must be an illusion of fishing in troubled waters during the incubation period.

Abnormality 3: Phone call, no message.

Husbands and wives also need to respect each other's privacy. Generally, men seldom check women's mobile phones. This habit is usually reserved for women. If they secretly check a woman's mobile phone and find that the inbox is empty, and she answers the phone in a low voice, she will not look cool. Abnormal, or the call lasted too long behind the scenes, or simply hung up in person. Can you say that there is nothing wrong with your wife?

Abnormality 4: Busy with housework, unexplained anger.

Women after an affair always seem a little flustered. After all, they have done something wrong, or they are highly nervous, or incoherent, or nervous, or on tenterhooks, or vigilant, or fearful. I try to cover up my inner uneasiness by doing things, so I am often busy with housework. I also tried my best to avoid talking about topics related to the person involved. In fact, it was mainly because I was worried that I would reveal my flaws by talking too much. Of course, some people will become quite lazy. In this process, due to the extremely contradictory psychology, it is very easy to produce some unknown anger.

Abnormality 5: Frigidity and bad temper.

Most of the sexual intercourse of a cheating woman at home is just for coping, without any passion, as if it is an obligation. If the man does not work hard or take the initiative, it may even be dispensable. In the bottom of his heart, he compares his lover with his husband from time to time, and always feels that his husband has no temperament. , without grace, the lover just has superiority. Obviously, in life, women complain, blame, picky, and lose their temper more often.

Why do women cheat?

★Usually, women pursue perfect love and life, and their demands sometimes even reach the point of being unrealistic. This is a kind of woman who has lost herself in marriage and life. The crux of the matter is that even if she is a happy person, she cannot experience that happiness and satisfaction.

★Don’t think that women will do “extraordinary” things only if they don’t have a happy emotional and material life. Many times, even if they have a good husband and family, they will be attracted to other men. This is actually the same as most women. Most men feel much the same way.

★As a woman, there is nothing wrong with appreciating the opposite sex generously and accepting their compliments. If it can improve your self-confidence in some way, then why not give it a try? Of course, the premise is that there will be no sequel to "Derailed". In fact, you just found the old feeling in their approving eyes, proving that you are still charming. When there are problems in your marriage, you still have the capital to find new happiness. In addition, other people's praise of you allows you to increase your self-awareness invisibly, and will also make him cherish you more. But don’t forget, a man’s acceptance of this. If your interaction with the opposite sex makes him feel that it is a challenge and threat, you’d better not do it in front of him. You can find a balance that is acceptable to both of you. The point is very important.

★When the passion of love and marriage has passed, the sense of security that stabilizes the relationship will cause men to shift their energy to career, friendship and other activities. Of course, women will have a sense of neglect and loss, so they can’t help but try to find other opportunities. There is a place to regain self-esteem and self-confidence, but all this must be done within a certain degree. At the same time, when faced with the emotional state of their wives, men should also examine themselves and see if there is an "undercurrent" in their relationship?

Here are some things to do to prevent infidelity

1. Subconsciously let the other person understand your attitude towards cheating.

In life, you should constantly let the other person understand your attitude towards cheating and your determination to oppose cheating, let the other party know the seriousness of cheating, and thus consciously improve your "self-discipline." For example, tell the other person that the people you admire should be emotionally upright and dedicated, and that the people you despise the most are those who are casual and do not reject anyone who comes.

2. Create a warm home so that both parties can enjoy the happiness of being "at home".

If the home can be warm enough to make two people feel happy and comfortable, who would be willing to go out to find someone to have fun or find another spiritual sustenance?

3. Try more things that two people can do together.

For example, cooking together, doing housework together, taking the children out to play together, etc., can enhance the relationship between each other and effectively prevent the other party from "cheating".

4. Maintain your own charm and interest in life.

In fact, "charm" needs to be maintained carefully by both parties. Although women spend more time and scope to maintain their beautiful appearance on weekdays, men should not be so careless that they are unkempt and unhygienic for a long time, otherwise the other party will complain once and boredom, the possibility of "cheating" is greatly increased.

5. Praise the other person’s strengths in a timely manner, and increase praise for habits worth promoting, so that the other person has a sense of accomplishment.

For things that the other party has done well in life, such as making delicious meals and getting home from get off work on time, which are conducive to family harmony, you can praise them profusely and encourage the other party to persevere and achieve greater success. If conditions permit, appropriate material rewards can be given, and maybe the effect of the other party's progress will be more obvious.

6. Let the other person have their own space, but be sure to understand the other person's space.

Taking a phone call as an example, you need to know who the other party frequently contacts, but you cannot eavesdrop on the specific content of the other party's phone calls. Excessive restraint will only be counterproductive, so you must leave appropriate room for it.