The desire for sexual activity is a common physiological and psychological phenomenon after humans enter puberty. As an instinct, sexual desire is formed in the process of biological evolution and fixed by heredity. It is necessary for the maintenance of normal sexual functions and the initiation of sexual behavior. Sexual desire is a powerful force that can push individuals to accomplish noble causes. If out of control, it can also lead to violent behaviors such as rape and murder, with disastrous consequences.

Normal sexual desire refers to the arousal of sexual excitement and the desire to have sexual intercourse under appropriate sexual stimulation. Male sexual desire is easily aroused by visual stimulation, while female sexual desire is easily aroused by tactile stimulation. After sexual desire is stimulated, two sexual activity processes occur: one is the process of accumulating sexual desire, in which both sexes accumulate sexual desire through physical and mental contact with each other, and the other is the process of resolving desire, in which women have increased vaginal secretions and men have semen. Finally, both men and women reach sexual climax, sexual harmony and satisfaction.

The intensity of sexual desire varies from person to person, but it is often affected by many physiological and psychological factors, such as age: sexual desire is strongest in adolescence and gradually decreases with age; and emotions, pessimism often suppresses sexual desire, while optimism Conducive to the maintenance of normal sexual desire and sexual function. In addition, diseases and drugs can also have adverse inhibitory effects on sexual desire. The intensity of sexual desire can be measured clinically by the number of sexual intercourses per unit time. Excessive sexual desire or low sexual desire are dysfunctions that require sexual therapy.

What are women with strong sexual desire thinking

Women with strong sexual desire have strong sexual needs that cannot be ignored. But because this idea goes against cultural expectations for women, they all struggle and have suffered from intense sexual desire.

Moreover, as they grow up, they realize that they are different from their best friends. 57% of the subjects said that they accepted themselves after a painful inner struggle. All of us have thought of ourselves as “sluts,” “nymphomaniacs,” and “sex addicts.” In fact, many of us have been dubbed such titles by friends or loved ones. Although the subjects themselves admitted that these titles were not unfair to some extent, they still felt that they had been treated unfairly.

Fortunately, almost all of the women in the study eventually accepted their sexual desires, and 16% of them did so in their late teens to early twenties. These women either have parents who are more liberal about sex and don't see their sexually active daughters as a big deal, or their friends think it's okay. But the rest are not so lucky. It often takes a long time for them to accept themselves, and they usually have to get divorced once or even several times.

How to effectively increase a woman’s sexual desire can be solved through the following 4 methods, take a look:

The power of touch

The more nerve endings and blood vessels there are, the stronger the sexual stimulation will be. The outermost layer of skin on the human body has no sensation; sensation occurs in the second layer of skin. For most people, the genitals, earlobes, lips, breasts, buttocks, and thighs are the most obvious erogenous zones. But many people's erogenous zones include the neck, palms, soles and abdomen.

In sex, the order of touching plays an important role. Generally speaking, you should start with the least sensitive parts first and gradually transition to the most sensitive parts. Touching the most sensitive areas right from the start will only backfire.

Men and women prefer different ways of being touched. Women seem to be more sensitive to the intensity of touch. Usually they like to start with a gentle touch and then gradually increase the intensity. Many people touch their spouse in a way that they like, but not necessarily in a way that the other person likes. You should first find out what the other person really needs (such as the location and intensity of caressing, etc.) to achieve good results.

Eyes of love

A husband's sexual excitement requires more visual stimulation than his wife's. This just goes to show why men like to have the lights on when they have sex, while women would rather have sex in dim light or in the absence of light at all.

But women can also be sexually excited by visual stimulation. Moreover, handsome men can cause the same visual pleasure to them as beautiful women to men. But as a rule they avoid talking about it.

Even though visual stimulation is so important during sex, many people still make the mistake of avoiding using their eyes. They worry that their physical appearance is not as good as they want. Women may worry that their breasts are too small and their thighs are too thick; men may worry that their penis is too small and their body hair is too thick. Our sense of self-inadequacy is so strong that it is often difficult to believe that others will be sexually excited by us.

Sexy smell

Everyone has a body odor, formed by bacteria on the surface of the skin, that varies from person to person like fingerprints. When we feel someone is attractive to us, it has a lot to do with his or her body odor. According to the survey, 71% of men and women believe that body odor is an important "stimulant". About 1/3 of women think men with strong body odor are sexier than men with light body odor. More than half of people think musky body odor is the sexiest. About 1/4 of people prefer spicy body odor.

Women's sense of smell seems to be more sensitive than men's. They can smell the slight odor of sweat from 3 feet away. During ovulation, their sense of smell is particularly sensitive.

The human body's musky-like odor is produced by glands around the vagina and under the vagina. In the animal kingdom, pheromones, scented compounds known as pheromones, play a key role in courtship, attracting males to pursue prolific females. But things are different with humans. A whiff of your spouse's body fragrance is usually not enough to turn you on. But your spouse’s body fragrance does play an important role in sex that cannot be underestimated. Modern people are very fond of cleanliness and always wash their whole bodies clean and smell-free, which makes it difficult for people to use their natural body fragrance. Of course, bad smells are also very off-putting. Therefore, the best way is to keep it clean while retaining body fragrance.

Taste and sex

We have about 10,000 taste buds, which are distributed in different parts of the tongue according to different sensory functions: taste buds on the tip of the tongue feel sweet, taste buds on the side of the tongue feel sour, and taste buds on the back of the tongue feel bitter. Only the salty taste can be felt in all parts of the tongue. That's a good thing, because the human body can smell slightly salty even when it's perfectly clean.

Men and women seem to have slightly different taste preferences. Men prefer salty taste, while women prefer sweet taste. But the most important thing during sex is to clear out any unpleasant taste. Most of us like to have sex with our spouse after taking a bath. Although movies and ads often promote the smell of sweat as a "sexy medium," few people actually want to kiss and make love to their spouse right after playing tennis or golf.