On the "wedding night", when young men and women really face sex life for the first time, and turn their latent sexual desire into reality for the first time, what should they pay attention to?

1. Don’t forget to kiss deeply

When having sex for the first time, men and women are often passionate about kissing and touching as a prelude to sex. However, kissing inappropriately can lead to great joy and sorrow. If you kiss inappropriately or press the other person's neck too hard, the heart rate will slow down and the blood pressure will drop. In severe cases, it can reflexively cause cardiac arrest, which can lead to death.

2. Don’t overindulge yourself

Newly married men and women are so horny that they indulge in sexual desire and have sex frequently, which is harmful to the body. In the process of preparing for the wedding, you are already very tired. If you continue to have sex too much, the body's disease resistance will decrease and some diseases will occur. Generally speaking, healthy men and women should do it 6 to 7 times a week in the early days of marriage, and then reduce it to 3 to 4 times a week. As long as they don't feel tired the next day, but feel happy and energetic, they are adaptable. If there is emotional fatigue, weakness, backache, drowsiness, dizziness, shortness of breath, etc., it means that sexual intercourse is excessive and must be controlled, otherwise it will be harmful to health.

3. Don’t be impatient and rude

During sexual intercourse, the man should be kind and gentle, and should not be too rude to avoid causing pain to the woman and causing negative stimulation. Excessive excitement often leads to premature ejaculation. If this happens, don’t worry too much. It will gradually improve in the future. If a newly married woman catches her menstruation, the man must control his sexual behavior and cannot have sex, otherwise it will cause pain to the woman.

4. Don’t be suspicious

If a newly married man and woman find that the woman's hymen has been broken during their first sexual intercourse, they should not doubt the bride's moral behavior. In fact, hymen rupture is common for women. Many daily activities can cause hymen rupture, such as participating in sports and heavier labor. Therefore, the man should not be suspicious and cause unnecessary conflicts.

What should women pay attention to on their first night of marriage?

1. Prevent inflammation of the damaged hymen.

After the hymen is ruptured, if there is some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding, you should wipe it with sterilized gauze or cotton wool. It is best to wait 2 to 3 days before having sex to prevent wound inflammation. If your hymen is ruptured, bleeding a lot, and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical attention.

Reminder: Sometimes because a woman’s hymen is thick or the hymen hole is too small, or the man’s sexual intercourse is rough, heavy bleeding may occur after the hymen is torn. The most severe cases not only cause large tears in the hymen, but also cause lacerations on the walls of the labia minora, leading to massive bleeding.

2. Treat premature ejaculation correctly.

For the first time during sexual intercourse, the man may ejaculate prematurely due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual intercourse failure. You should forgive this situation. This is not premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal.

3. Pay attention to external genital hygiene.

On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash your vulva with warm water and mild soap. Newlyweds are busy and tired due to wedding shopping and entertaining relatives and friends. Men's smegma and women's vaginal secretions increase. If not cleaned, it is very unhygienic and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.

4. Take good contraceptive measures.

If a man and a woman do not want to have a baby right away and do not take birth control pills, both the couple will have concerns, and the woman will be more afraid of getting pregnant, so she will not be able to concentrate highly and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, concentrate, and achieve satisfactory results in their sexual life.

5. Cooperate closely and be considerate of each other.

When starting sexual life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman, who has a complicated psychological state and is a little nervous. You need to ask your husband to move gently, and if it doesn't work once, try a few more times. The woman must also take the initiative to cooperate, overcome tension and fear, take the initiative to relax mentally, and be sexually aroused quickly. The vaginal secretions are abundant and have good lubrication effect, which can reduce the pain during sexual intercourse and relieve the pain caused by the abrasion of the hymen.