It is easier and messier for women to be bad than men. For many women, having an affair is the best way for them to indulge themselves and vent themselves. In fact, in the world of both sexes, women often find many excuses if they want to have an affair. See the editor's introduction below.

1. Heartbreak

This is the root cause of girls who frequently find one-night stands, and it comes from the hurt in their hearts.

The most common thing is that they are abandoned by their boyfriends, and this boyfriend is often their first man, the first man they think they can trust for life. So after breaking up with them, I suffered great psychological damage and no longer believed in love, so I began to deliberately indulge myself and use one-night stands to make up for the wounds in my heart.

Due to the disappointment in love and the hatred of one's own indulgence, this complicated emotion will lead to the psychological belief that one is a bad girl, and the more indulgent one is, so one-night stands are frequent.

In fact, it is just a kind of emotional catharsis. They use extreme feelings to release the gloom in their hearts. At this time, the one-night stand is just a disguised form of self-abuse for them, like a wounded beast, but they keep tearing open their own wounds. Let the wound continue to bleed...

What I want to tell these girls is: In fact, you don’t have to be in pain to feel your existence. In fact, you can change it back. Life is not easy anymore. Please take care of yourself and your body.

2. Anger

A moment of anger can change a person dramatically.

This kind of girl is often more lively and has a hot temper. Often after a quarrel with her boyfriend, she deliberately uses a one-night stand to calm down her mood. In fact, they just want to vent, just like children. What they think in their hearts is that my boyfriend doesn't care about me anyway, so I want to deliberately anger him. In fact, she just wants to find someone to care about her, so it is often easy to have a one-night stand with a boy who can comfort her to find that loss.

But often after a one-night stand, when the mood calms down, one begins to regret what one has done. Many young girls often become young women in such a moment of anger... Quote: Men often regret not having sex with a certain woman; women regret having sex with a certain man.

I hope that this kind of girl can think calmly for three minutes before looking for a one-night stand. In fact, you can use more appropriate methods to balance your mood, such as chatting...

3. Loneliness

Lonely hearts often need comfort.

When there is no one to accompany you during the long night, the psychological loneliness is often the reason why many single women have one-night stands. In fact, the need for sex is not great, I just want to find someone to accompany me and spend a long night with me. One-night stand is a way to fill the yearning for warmth and the fear of loneliness. These girls are generally open-minded and advanced-thinking... full of desire for romantic feelings.

What I want to say is, pay attention to contraception...

4. Desire

The pursuit of sexual desires.

Food, sex, and sex. With the opening of ideas, many women express their desires more directly. They seek one-night stands because of their naked sexual needs. They are often divorced and their husbands are not around for a long time... In fact, women, like men, have physical needs for sex, so they are eager to satisfy their physiological needs through one-night stands. Freud asserted in "The Future of an Illusion" that "man is an imbecile creature dominated by instinctive desires."

Extramarital affairs are the biggest safety hazard for many marriages and families. For couples who have entered a stable and dull relationship, how to protect their marriages from extramarital affairs is something that many couples are concerned about. From the above we can know several reasons why women cheat. So how to avoid the possibility of extramarital affairs?

Don’t have too frequent contact with the opposite sex

If you have long-term contact with friends of the opposite sex, it is inevitable that sparks of "love" will arise. Therefore, when you are in contact with friends of the opposite sex, do not choose places that are prone to ambiguity, or in public places. Treat each other as "buddies" and "friends" in your heart, and the content of the conversation should be limited to care and greetings between friends. When talking about work and study, avoid talking about emotional topics, and try to avoid long-term eye contact.

Enrich your married life

Many married people have extramarital affairs, either because they are not new to marriage or because they are not emptied and lonely. If you meet a person of the opposite sex who you are compatible with at this time and fall in love for a long time, it is easy to step into the threshold of extramarital affairs.

Therefore, try to keep yourself busy, such as reading more books, listening to music more, or exercising more, and keep a happy mood at all times, so that you can easily get rid of loneliness. For married couples, creating more fun in life will make the couple more affectionate and stay away from the edge of divorce and extramarital affairs.

Put experience into married life

After getting married, some men pay little attention to their married life because they face the pressure of life and work. No matter how busy or tired you are, don't ignore your feelings for your family, because home is where you cultivate and rest.

For example, you can think about how long it has been since you called your parents? How long has it been since you were tender with your lover? How long has it been since you cared about your children’s studies? Only by constantly reflecting on your relationship with your family can you feel attached to your marriage.

In fact, in order to maintain the emotional stability of a marriage, both husband and wife need to learn how to regularly add different colors to their marriage life. The three methods above are good methods that the editor will tell you today. I hope it will be helpful to you and I wish you all a happy family.