As soon as a person reaches puberty, as the secretion of endocrine hormones increases, it is very natural for people to begin to have sexual desire and concern about sexual issues. On the contrary, due to congenital or acquired endocrine disorders and other reasons, it can cause abnormal development of sexual organs, or due to improper social and family upbringing, it can also cause sexual and psychological development disorders or abnormalities. Sexual sensitivity in adolescence is one of them.

Here are two examples.

A high school female student wrote a letter and said: I am 16 years old, new to life, and I still can’t understand or think through some things. I would like to ask why boys today behave differently towards girls than they did before.

One of my cousins ​​is like this. We played together freely when we were children. There is also a cousin who is one year older than me. We were very happy talking and laughing. But now that I have grown up, it is different. Everyone said that I had a good figure, was beautiful, and was kind... So my cousin saw me as a star and bought me things every day. I asked him why he didn't give it to his sister, and he said "she doesn't deserve it"!

I really don’t understand, why doesn’t my cousin deserve to enjoy these materials? I'm confused. Also, why would anyone be so interested in us girls? It was one night a month ago. There was no moon in the sky, and there were only a few stars (this was not a deliberately gloomy scene, but it was true).

I went to the bathroom with a female classmate in my class. At this time, I saw something moving on the wall. I felt nervous and thought of the devil. I was really scared, but I couldn’t help but look at it again. I took a quick look and saw that it was clearly the face of a male classmate in the darkness, which scared me so much that I screamed. Then, my heart kept beating all day long and I couldn't calm down for a long time. I don’t know why, but now I’m scared when I see my male classmates. It seems like their eyes are peeking at me all the time, and I can’t hide them.

For this reason, my enthusiasm for learning was completely dispelled, and I even wanted to drop out of school, but I was conflicted because I couldn’t help but think about school and the male classmates who looked at me every day. , besides being afraid, there is an indescribable feeling.

A 19-year-old college boy wrote to consult: I am a very introverted person. Under the strict education of my parents since childhood, I only know how to study and study. After I was admitted to college and walked out of my house for the first time, the world seemed very strange to me. Everything felt new but also scary and unpredictable.

There are many female students in the class. To be honest, they are all like flowers, so charming and charming. Many male students from big cities chatted and made fun with them, danced and played together, and I I always want to learn from them how to approach them, but every time I get a big blush and sweat profusely before I even get close to them. I am extremely depressed about this.

Out of physiological drive, I sometimes masturbate and want to satisfy myself with fantasies, but I always feel regretful and empty afterwards. I had a dream once. I don’t know where the courage came from, but I actually hugged a female classmate... When I woke up, I was still frightened and felt that I had done something bad. During the day, because I kept thinking about what happened in my dreams, the idea of ​​hugging a woman slowly came into my mind.

As soon as I see a female classmate, this kind of bad thought will appear, but I know very well that this kind of thinking is immoral and criminal, but I just can't restrain it, so I have to lie down all day When I sleep with my head covered in the dormitory, I am most afraid of seeing women. I was in so much pain that I couldn't get rid of this thought. I thought about committing suicide and wanted to punish myself with death..."