I was not happy with my boyfriend a while ago, and he seemed to want to break up. We have been together for three years, and I cherish it very much. I took the initiative to pursue my boyfriend, who is also my first love. Later, I met L, an old classmate who liked me in high school. Just when my love was going through twists and turns, L kept making me happy. We started to meet frequently on MSN, but a few months later, he also changed. If he comes to me again, he won't pay any attention to me, and after a few words he will tell me that he has something to do and won't reply to me anymore. It feels like he is avoiding me. Could it be that L thinks he is just a substitute to fill my loneliness, so he leaves angrily? Go? Because I am often the one complaining.

Actually, before this, I had an affair with several other boys, which lasted for a month or two! I felt like a hungry child, eager for praise, hugs, and sex everywhere. With love... No matter who it is, as long as he is willing to give it, no matter whether it is sincere or not, as long as he can afford it, I will accept it. I think it is just giving it to me without asking for anything in return... And in the meantime, my heart I have always loved my boyfriend. Do you want some excitement? Is it because my boyfriend doesn’t give you enough sweet words? Or is it because I have never enjoyed the sweetness of being pursued? I really like the luxury and luxury of being pursued. ambiguous. Am I a flower? What kind of psychology is this? I like all this, but I am vaguely afraid.

Reply:

In fact, many people have experienced your "complex and beautiful heart". Subconsciously, they like to be surrounded by ambiguity, and then have some small struggles, mostly revel. Who doesn't like to be a "heartthrob" and then refuse, or occasionally look back and smile, what a luxurious release of charm and superiority? Perhaps, you can interpret it as a more popular word: philandering. We have all been too busy, so why do we "just take a cup to drink" later? Because we are too lazy to "spend", because we have found full true love, and only one true love can satisfy us.

Obviously, the candle of love in your heart is a little dim, so you welcome all light, although the candle you care about most is still the candle. It can be seen that there is really a problem in your current relationship. Maybe your boyfriend's feelings are accurate, but he is afraid of hurting you too much, so he maintains it, delays it, or waits for you to come up with new ideas, such as breaking up. .

Actually, you know to some extent that your relationship with your boyfriend is somewhat uncomfortable, but you deliberately ignore it in your heart, and then use other "foreign" or "unexpected" emotions to express your feelings. Permeate or create some ambiguous atmosphere, comfort yourself or get some psychological compensation from it.

Your current love can no longer nourish your heart, or your boyfriend no longer loves you with all his heart. However, you are afraid of being clear to the point, and you are afraid of the truth. Therefore, your heart is ambiguous and unclear. Then you get used to or fall in love with this ambiguous state of mind. It is an escape, but you are still longing for it.

Uncertain emotions are like floating clouds, and normality is a bit ethereal. Ambiguity is beautiful, but it must appear in the form of a question. However, the best gift for women should be "answers" rather than questions. Now, you need an "answer", or a "decision".

Don’t be afraid of breaking up. If you continue to passively maintain an ambiguous relationship with different people, it is like drinking a dove to quench your thirst. When you are in love, a girl can slow down for two beats; when you are not in love, don't linger and leave as quickly as possible. This will be more elegant and less painful. Looking forward to your good news, I believe that love can be met, and the best love is often met.

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