A netizen left a message on the website saying: "My boyfriend can't satisfy himself in bed and is confused about whether he should break up. The editor wants to tell this MM that if both parties are healthy and have normal sexual function, but their sex life is not Satisfaction is a common phenomenon. According to statistics, the real harmonious and happy sex life usually occurs after a period of running-in, which is about 2-3 years. This is when both parties gradually become familiar with each other's needs and feelings through communication, and cooperate with each other. Make sex life harmonious. Due to society's long-term negative attitude towards sex life, sex life has become something that can only be done but not talked about. Now we need to break this attitude and learn to observe life and pay attention to the more delicate aspects of life, which are often the dominant ones. The root of the matter.

Why is sex so short?

1. Excessive fatigue

Feeling tired after physical or mental work, having bad lifestyle habits of smoking and drinking, and having sex when you are under high work pressure and lack of energy are also prone to premature ejaculation.

2. Anxiety and depression

Because anxiety and premature ejaculation are both regulated by sympathetic nerves. Hasty sexual intercourse before marriage is often carried out when the mood is tense. Once the conditioned reflex of striving for quick ejaculation is formed, it is difficult to change after marriage. Increased psychological burden can also easily lead to sexual dysfunction.

3. Diseases of reproductive organs

The frenulum of the foreskin of the penis is too short, the inflammation of the penis is chronic congestion and edema, and the slightest sexual stimulation causes sexual excitement and rapid ejaculation.

Should I break up if my sex life is short?

1. During the communication process, do not express all your dissatisfaction to your boyfriend at once. For each communication, it is best to only talk about one topic and solve the problems one by one. For example, when communicating about your feelings about sex life, if you have never reached an orgasm and think your boyfriend’s foreplay time is too short, you should not talk about it while you are still there. When you are not really sexually aroused, you enter the stage of sexual intercourse. When you are sexually aroused, if you tell the truth about everything in your heart, it will often be a serious blow to your boyfriend, who will feel very sad. You should first point out that the foreplay process is too simple. Your boyfriend should extend the foreplay time and increase caressing movements and verbal expressions so that you can have full sexual arousal before having sex.

2. When communicating, you should choose a harmonious atmosphere and conduct it in a calm state. Do not raise your dissatisfaction and demands during an argument, so that the other party will not regard your words as angry words and affect the conversation. Effect.

3. During the communication process, you must speak the truth and not be too pretentious. In the communication process, the expression and observation of body language are also very important, that is to say, act according to the eyes and have a good sense of proportion. If the other person looks pleasant, or there are uninterrupted kissing movements between the two parties, it means that the communication can be continued or the issue can be discussed in more depth. When your boyfriend improves, he should be praised and encouraged in time, and then talk about the sexual intercourse process itself. In this way, through step-by-step communication, the sexual life will naturally be harmonious and happy.