From the back of our sisters, we found out that it is difficult to tell your boyfriend to hear his boyfriend, and you cannot resonate. Thoughtful and important. Especially at night, there is enough atmosphere to share your privacy with friends.

Three physiological revolutions from girl to woman

A girl’s first time is always accompanied by panic and confusion, the first “period”, the first time having sex, the first time Abortion, the physical pain is still tolerable, but is the psychological transition complete? Are there any "first times" that you don't know what to do with?

Character: Brave and decisive AMY

Place of privacy disclosure: On the bed at a friend’s house

Method of privacy disclosure: Face to face

Privacy disclosure time: at night, before going to bed

Privacy disclosure targets: 2 or 3 close friends

AMY: The first time I was "unlucky" was in my sixth grade physical education class. A boy secretly told me: "Your pants are dirty!" I patted my butt and continued playing games with my classmates until get out of class was over. I went to WC during recess and found blood stains all over my underwear! But it really scared me. Thinking about having to face such a "life and death" catastrophe every month, I felt that being a girl was really troublesome.

AMY: When I was a freshman, I met a boy I liked, and I felt that he was the person I was looking for in my life. Although I had been in love once before, this time I felt completely different from the last time. . So during the summer vacation of my sophomore year, we went to the beach alone. It was the most wonderful seven days I have ever experienced to this day. We flew to Hainan. We had very limited money at the time, so we stayed at the beach for the last two days and slept in a tent we brought. On the last night, we walked a long way along the coastline and stopped when we got tired. Someone was setting off fireworks on the seaside in the distance, which made the sky shine brightly. With the tide, fireworks, sea breeze, and salty taste, I gave him my first time. We were both scared at the time, because it was each other's first time, and we were testing each other out, clumsily.

AMY: After working, I lived with him, looking forward to the beautiful days in the future, until one day I found out that I was pregnant. He was startled, as helpless as a child. So, I secretly went to the hospital to have an abortion. Tears accompanied the entire operation, not from pain, but from chills. He was overwhelmed with fear. After returning from the hospital, he also said that we must be careful in the future, completely ignoring my sad and desolate mood at that time. A month later, I cooked him a sumptuous dinner, left a note on the table, packed up my things and left him. Bearing everything on my own is the most useful thing this relationship has given me.

Secret words of close friends:

●I always feel that girls are at a disadvantage when it comes to this kind of issue. Not to mention the physical toll, the mental trauma is even harder to heal. I wouldn't have had the courage to leave him if he had changed me. After all, he didn't make any big mistakes. Men need to be trained and cultivated. Haha, I think AMY’s move is a little more than worth the gain, but I admire her quite a bit.

● AMY is a girl with a lot of personality. I think she has the right to choose her own life, and she has the right to choose a man.

●On this issue, there is no saying that girls and boys should take advantage of each other. If they like each other, they will stay together. If they feel that they cannot adapt to each other, they will separate. It is normal.

Character: Kind-hearted GRACE

Privacy disclosure location: In the living room of your own home

Privacy disclosure method: A friend tricked out the secret while watching the movie

Privacy disclosure time: evening

Privacy disclosure target: two young boys

GRACE: My friend Xiao Lan’s boyfriend Ah Wei is the most handsome on the basketball court boy. I didn't dare to tell her that I had been secretly in love with Ah Wei for a year. For the next year, I was torn between confessing or remaining silent. Finally at the graduation prom, after dancing together, I decided to tell him what was on my mind. Unexpectedly, the subsequent turmoil: Ah Wei and Xiaolan broke up. It is said that Ah Wei has always liked me. I was transferred to another dormitory, and Xiaolan was in the process of going abroad recently. Friendship is gone, and love is not as sweet as imagined.

Xiaolan left a line in my graduation guestbook: Love has no sequence. I pursue my happiness, I hope you can understand, and I wish you the ultimate happiness!

I cried.

Secret words of close friends:

●One side is friends, and the other side is love. GRACE’s love road must be very bumpy, haha. It’s really annoying when faced with this choice, but everyone knows that you can’t have your cake and eat it too, and girls will eventually choose love. Some people say that this is a sign of selfishness, but I don’t think so. I think it is a sign of confidence. Moreover, it took a year of painful suffering for GRACE to bravely express her feelings to him, which shows that GRACE has thought carefully.

●Such a story of falling in love with a friend’s boyfriend has happened to me many times. I don’t think it’s okay to let a boy like this change his mind. Just imagine if he gets together with GRACE and a girl expresses her love to him. What do you mean? Isn't it still GRACE who suffers in the end? Such a man is unreliable. To put it bluntly, he likes the new and hates the old. A smart woman shouldn't be so infatuated with this kind of man. No matter how charming he is, she must let him know that all the girls in the world are not just for him. His charm must be based on sincerity. Love is not a dress. Just change it.

●I think that only friendships between same-sex people are the most cherished in this world, because I always believe that there is no friendship between people of the opposite sex, and there must be some romance in them, so girls The most cherished thing is the friendship between same-sex people, because only women understand women best, and friends are more intimate than lovers most of the time. I think GRACE lost his best friend because of Ah Wei, which is not worth the loss.

Parental DOUBLE Emotions

The cheerful YIYO is in her fourth year of college. Her two fathers and two mothers also have their own babies, and YIYO often visits them. This is her secret. It wasn't until one day when we were talking about our parents that I realized that she had experienced many things that I could never imagine...

Character: Strong YIYO

Privacy Disclosure Location: YIYO's home

Privacy disclosure method: chatting with friends on the phone

Privacy disclosure time: late at night

Privacy disclosure target: me alone

YIYO : Now my dad is going through the divorce procedures with his new mother, and I think that’s okay. If you feel happy together, continue living together, if not, separate. It's better than two people living awkwardly all their lives and going to the grave with regrets. It may be my "credit" for their separation.

In the New Year, I missed my dad, so I flew to Shanghai to see them. I didn’t tell them in advance. When I got home, the door was unlocked. I wanted to surprise my father, so I tiptoed to their bedroom.

Through the crack in the door, I saw the new mother and a strange man naked on the bed. It turned out that the new mother was having an affair! I opened the door generously, and the new mother ordered me to leave the room quickly. I asked her, what are you afraid of? Are you unhappy with your father? If you are not happy, don't live together! Then I left my New Year gift for my father and took the afternoon flight back to Beijing. I didn't tell anyone about this. A few days later, my father called me and told me that he was getting a divorce. I said "Yeah" and hung up the phone. At that time, I really felt that the relationship between men and women was so fragile, and there were so many temptations outside of marriage. A marriage contract was actually just a piece of paper. Some of my classmates also had divorced parents. They all came to me crying and crying. I really didn’t understand. Should two people be tied together until they die if they are not happy?

My family is very special. I have two fathers and two mothers. I always mention my family to my boyfriend. He looks very scared, saying that I have experienced so much at such a young age. Family changes. I told him that I didn’t think I was miserable or unfortunate, but that I hoped that the family I would form in the future would be more stable and not change members all day long. Once this point of view was expressed, it scared my boyfriend. He was afraid that I would get used to this feeling of changing members and change him someday.

I am full of expectations for the future. I really want to see if my family will be in such turmoil in the future.

Secret words of close friends:

●There are more and more girls who can be as open-minded as YIYO, because more and more families are breaking up sensibly, although this is not a good thing phenomenon, but what can we do in the face of such a solution? It is nothing more than sighing and facing the life with infinite possibilities in the future again!

●I think children from divorced families are very precocious, and YIYO is one of them. It's rare for her to see things so openly, but I'm worried that she might be full of fear of love and marriage because of her parents' affairs. It seems that her boyfriend has a lot to do and needs to take better care of her.

One-night stand = romance

Men and sex are the secrets that women can never tell. In the Sex and the City we live in, love affairs between men and women are staged every day. With sex, men and sex are conjoined babies that can never be separated. Wherever there is love, there will be overflow and spread. However

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