Many women find that soon after getting married, they lose their original interest and enthusiasm for sex, and they always have to deal with it reluctantly every time they have sex. In fact, when this kind of problem occurs, you must find out the reason. , don’t force it.

Introduction to several causes of frigidity

Starting sex too early

After a woman gives birth, the changes in her body and reproductive system caused by pregnancy and childbirth will have a certain inhibitory effect on sexual desire. Generally, it takes two months after delivery for various organs to return to normal and sexual desire to gradually recover. Pre-pregnancy state. If couples do not understand this, they will start sexual life too early after childbirth, especially if some husbands "go their own way" when their wives are unwilling. This not only affects the wife's physical recovery, but also causes her to be disgusted and disgusted with sexual life, which may lead to sexual frigidity.

Overworked

A harmonious and happy sexual life needs to be based on good health and energy. After giving birth, women often focus on their children and are not very interested in sex itself. If the husband stands aside from the children and housework at this time, is inconsiderate, uncaring, and does not help, and allows his wife to be busy alone, while he only becomes energetic when he goes to bed, of course he will not be able to make his wife actively engage in sex. Come to life.

Improper contraceptive measures

Some women do not take effective contraceptive measures after giving birth. When having sex, they are always on tenterhooks for fear of getting pregnant; in addition, some couples use the method of interrupting sexual intercourse to prevent pregnancy. They interrupt sexual intercourse every time when the "sexual" interest is strong and the wife is close to orgasm, which may lead to frigidity over time. .

Reproductive system diseases

Some women leave scars due to vulva and vaginal tears during childbirth, which reduces the sexual sensitivity of the vagina or causes pain during sexual intercourse due to a narrow vagina; some women experience sexual intercourse due to postpartum complications of endometriosis or chronic pelvic inflammatory disease. Discomfort; some women also suffer from trichomonas and fungal vaginitis, increased leucorrhea, vulvar itching, burning pain, etc., which will suppress their sexual desire to varying degrees.

What should a husband do if his wife is sexually apathetic

Therefore, we must first let go of the heavy baggage we carry and build confidence. A large amount of survey data at home and abroad prove that female sexual frigidity decreases year by year as the age of marriage increases, and the sexual life between couples will become more harmonious.

Secondly, coordinate the relationship between husband and wife. Because there is no love in a marriage or a discordant relationship between husband and wife, there will be no fun in sex life. In the family, the wife is not the vassal of the husband. Only by being more caring and considerate to the wife can she gradually forget the unfortunate past, and must not express dissatisfaction in words. I often accompany her for walks, travels, and movies. Give her more effort in housework, give her more spiritual encouragement, and constantly provide her with psychological comfort. When there are differences of opinion in life, we should adopt an attitude of seeking common ground while reserving minor differences and being tolerant and tolerant, so that the conflicts can be alleviated and resolved.

Third, it requires close cooperation from both parties. Preparation work should be more complete before sexual intercourse. Sexual intercourse should be carried out only when the wife has sexual desire. This will also help the transformation of sexual frigidity. When the wife temporarily does not want to have sex due to physical or psychological factors, do not force sex just to satisfy your own sexual desire without respecting the wife's wishes. This will make the wife more disgusted and disgusted with sex life.