Invest some emotion in a one-night stand! Women's pursuit of love actually has no formal boundaries, no barriers of time and space, no distinction between tradition and modernity, no difference between one night and a lifetime. As long as it is "love", women will expect it to develop in a warm direction...< /p>

In sexual love, men are often the "winners", but what about women? When women deliver their bodies for a night, can they separate sex and love like men? Can you pull away easily? At dawn, will there be a vague emotion in a woman's heart as the sun rises from the horizon? The Gap Between Reality and Imagination For a long time, one-night stand has become synonymous with avant-garde in people’s minds. In secret life, one-night stands seem to be popular everywhere. However, this survey shows that 50.62% of women do not approve of one-night stands at all, although "if it happens, there is no need to condemn it."

Another question asked, "Can you accept one-night stands?" The results showed that only 18.17% of women often can, which is enough to show that most modern women still believe in love and respect traditional virtues.

Why is there such a gap between real life and the imagination of the public? Other surveys seem to indicate women's complex psychological attitudes toward one-night stands. In response to the question "How do you usually feel after a night?", 32.66% of women reported that they would feel a little lost, or more melancholy and empty. This proves the famous saying of a sexologist: If sexual desire cannot fly with the wings of love, then people will definitely feel endless emptiness after sexual pleasure, because sex without emotion is like body movement without soul. . Similarly, in response to the question "If one-night stands are more harmful to women, what are the possible reasons?" 33.21% of women reported that women may be more likely to fall in love with each other but have no ending, and 31.16% of women reported that "it is easy when a man is alone." After the disease is gone, women may become pregnant or increase their risk of sexually transmitted diseases."

Our culture has long encouraged women to value emotions over sex. Social concepts are internalized into people's hearts, so it is difficult for women to easily float between sex and love like men can. In the eyes of most women, if they have sex with a man, it is often because of love. Experts believe that this is not only determined by the special physiological characteristics of men and women, but also related to the orientation of social concepts. What's more, men and women face different dilemmas from the beginning due to special physiological differences in their sexual lives. Women are at increased risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases than men. Therefore, we can see from the survey that most women today are not as men cheered. An era of sexual revolution has arrived. Women can go to bed without any burden, just like men, in the separation of sex and love. , wantonly enjoy the pure pleasure of sex. In fact, women realize that the so-called sexual revolution is likely to be a way for men to make it easier and more convenient for women to "get" women into bed. In the face of the progress of the sexual revolution, they must maintain their clear judgment on "whether or not to have a one-night stand." Therefore, in another survey "How would you feel if this man wanted to sleep with you but you didn't want to?", 71.77% of women answered "It's natural to reject him. If you don't want to, you just don't want to." Therefore, the independence of modern women Consciousness is an absolute progress. Regarding sex, they no longer just passively accept or resist, but better understand the choice between self-esteem and self-love.

Choice and concealment When we remain clear enough about one-night stands and judge women's self-worth, we can see that women do enjoy sex and love with a multiple mentality than before. First of all, 46.39% of women agree with trial sex, that is, "if two people want to be together, they must first try sexual harmony." This was almost unimaginable before. Relevant to some news events about female sex in 2004, such as women asking for the right to vacant houses, women getting divorced due to sexual disharmony, etc., we can see that women are beginning to value the role of sex in the relationship between men and women just like men. If not, Harmony, they will not blindly compromise for the sake of the overall situation of marriage. Secondly, women have added their own say in the love between the sexes. How sex is done is no longer just a matter of men having the final say. For example, even if a one-night stand occurs, women begin to care more about their own health problems, and will never follow the traditional saying, "I love him, so I will satisfy him unconditionally." So in the answer to the question "What should you do if he doesn't want to use condoms?", 50.39% of women answered "You must use condoms. How can you take your sexual health lightly?" In addition, modern women also realize that they should know how to pay attention to their own desires. In response to the question "If you are under pressure to go to bed as soon as possible with a man for the first time, what is your motivation?", 66.98% of women believed that "sex is a mutually beneficial thing, and I want it too." My pleasure". This is very different from the traditional concept that women always think that sex is something dedicated to men and they have to suffer. It also reflects the self-love side of women. However, even if the openness of society has led to an increase in tolerance of women's behavior, as women themselves, they will still maintain an attitude of avoiding and hiding things, especially short-term one-night stands.

When men have an affair, they usually brag about it in front of their best buddies, hoping that the whole world will know about it. Men are proud of this, as if it is their own achievement. Women, on the other hand, are more likely to enjoy their emotional secrets alone, and are unwilling to reveal them even to their good friends. In the answers to the question "Would you reveal the secret of your one-night stand to others?", 53.91% of women said they would never do it. Love or body moves, if women admire love infinitely and long for loyalty, then why do women themselves have one-night stands? The answer to this question is that men usually do it for sex, but in the question "Under what circumstances are one-night stands most likely to occur?" 65.55% of women reported that one-night stands are more likely to occur when they are lonely, and 39.92% of women reported that they are most likely to have one-night stands when they are lonely. A one-night stand occurs between an infatuated colleague or friend.

51.10% of women most want to get emotional comfort from a one-night stand. Therefore, women's cheating is often about indulgence rather than indulgence. The above data can clearly reflect that even if the vast majority of women have one-night stands, it is often due to emotional needs rather than simple physiological desires. This is roughly consistent with the results of another question: "Can you achieve "zero emotion" in a one-night stand, that is, only enjoy physical pleasure but no romance?" The survey shows that 54.20% of women report that they cannot have zero affection. There will always be a little affection, but it is not love. Although they may not be able to explain what it is. Therefore, many times, women are different from men in that their attitude towards emotions prevents them from completely separating sex and love. Therefore, this also has the answer to "If you knew it was just a one-night stand, would you want him to leave immediately?" That is, 57.16% of women reported that they can talk and exchange feelings. This further proves that even if women have a one-night stand, they still long for real feelings for each other in their hearts.