Couples who enter the marriage hall hand in hand are looking forward to starting a happy life, and no one wants to get divorced. Maybe it’s because life is better now, self-awareness has awakened, and people have higher demands on emotions. As a result, married life encountered an unprecedented test. Those couples who were full of confidence in happiness were walking, but suddenly found that they could no longer go on.

There are certainly many reasons for marriage problems, but regardless of internal obstacles or external temptations, the core factor is "dissatisfaction." In fact, marriage is about living a real life, eating, sleeping, chatting, educating children, and dealing with family matters. If two people can cooperate well in these things, their relationship will naturally deepen and their lives will be happy. Emotional cheating, "one-night stands", "extramarital affairs", etc. These phenomena occur because one or both parties are "not satisfied" in the marriage and will unconsciously seek satisfaction from other channels.

When dealing with family and marriage problems, people often choose to avoid and ignore them, unable to face them bravely, and fail to take appropriate methods to solve them in a timely manner. Intentionally or unintentionally, the seeds of "dissatisfaction" are buried in the marriage. This "seed" will "grow wildly" at the right time, directly leading to the breakdown of the marriage.

Couples in marriage must pay attention to the "dissatisfaction" in life, resolve it in time, and do not make do with it or make do with it. If you find that your marriage is really coming to an end, divorce is not a bad thing. Divorce is an end, but also a new beginning. The important thing is that in the new life, you should avoid the stings of the past and move towards happiness.

One-night stand is a mental illness

Li Shuang loves his wife very much, and in his wife's eyes, Li Shuang is definitely a good husband. However, his wife accidentally discovered that Li Shuang had had "one-night stands" many times in the five years after their marriage. In anger, she filed for divorce. Li Shuang's work requires frequent business trips. Every time he travels, he can't help but have sex with strange women, but he doesn't know their names and never contacts them again.

American sociologists define "one-night stand" as: sexual behavior based on human animal sexual attraction. It ignores the norms that lovers should abide by when getting along, such as character, quality, cultivation, etc. In recent years, the number of marriage breakups caused by "one-night stands" has increased year by year.

Addiction to "one-night stands" is a mental illness. Such people often live regular lives but lack color. They experience excitement and freshness from one-night stands. But they remain very attached to their marital relationship. The essential difference between "one-night stand" and prostitution is that the former is for the dual satisfaction of sexual and psychological desires, while the latter is for the satisfaction of one party's sexual desire. It is essentially a money transaction. Therefore, if the party who has a one-night stand actively faces his or her own psychological problems and seeks solutions, it is a forgivable betrayal.