Why do men want a woman’s first time? Let me first make it clear that I am not a feudal boy. However, I can't bear to see many girls who devote themselves to their boyfriends and then suffer in agony after falling out of love. And some of the reasons why they devote themselves to their boyfriends are silly, and some are because they don't understand boys well enough. So, I want to tell you about some psychology and physiology of boys.

First of all, a girlfriend has no obligation to satisfy her boyfriend’s sexual desires! ! Don't think that just because he calls you wife every day, you really think you are his wife. When your boyfriend makes a request in that regard to you, if you are not very happy, you must use euphemistic language and a firm attitude to refuse. Don't be fooled by his words such as: We will get married anyway, isn't it the same anytime? ; If you don’t do it with me, you don’t love me (this is a way to provoke me); or be soft-hearted because of his pitiful appearance and pleading, (although this is difficult to do, after all, you really love him, but Remember the song Zhou Hui sang: Sometimes being soft-hearted is a kind of misery, pushing yourself into the abyss! There will indeed be some discomfort, but it is not as exaggerated as they show, and it is completely controllable. He will see It depends on your attitude. If you show some softness, he will become like Bengali.

And will ask you more frequently. It’s even harder for you to say no. "I even heard that some boys lied to girls, saying that if they don't have sex with them, their erections will stay erect, and some girls actually believe it. It's really pitiful.") If he really loves you, he will love you more and cherish you because of your reserve and independence, because you will be more sacred and noble in his mind, and you will become more charming and attractive; if you do , he will temporarily express his gratitude and be surprisingly nice to you, but please don’t be happy too early. If one day you reject him again, his face will often make you feel chilled! Moreover, after doing it, I fell into passivity! !

Who doesn’t want to cherish his first time? The more you pay for him, the higher your expectations for him will be. The more afraid you are of losing him, the more you will accommodate him. In the eyes of many boys, this means losing character. , you will feel bored, and the more he will disappoint you. When you have conflicts again, he won't come to apologize to you as early as before, because you are the one who can't let go! Even if you get married in the future, it is not good to develop this habit.

If he leaves you for this, congratulations, you have left someone who does not love you, or even a liar who has other agendas (although such people are often very charming). I am 100% sure that you will find someone who truly loves you and is better than him! No one can survive without him. After enduring the first half year and getting out of your life with him, you will find that the truth is not what you originally thought.