Having a harmonious and regular sex life not only makes people feel happy in life, but also has many benefits for physical health. However, ten years of marriage has polished away the passion of many sexual lives. Sexual life is like a pool of stagnant water without any waves. Naturally, they cannot realize the many benefits of sexual life. Sex life is as dull as water, how to find the passion of the past? Let us find out next.

Sex life is as dull as water, how to find the passion of the past?

1. Leave the bedroom

If you have sex in one bedroom all year round, it will give people a feeling of no change, and you will naturally become bored with your sex life. If you want to regain the passion of the past, you must break away from the status quo, at least leave the current bedroom. If there are no children or elderly people at home, you can unlock other areas, such as the living room, bathroom, kitchen, etc. If there are others at home to disturb them, the couple can sneak out for a date, or they can book a room in a hotel and rekindle their love in this room.

2. Change the sexual pattern

After two people have lived together for a long time, many people are too lazy to change. If they want to have sex, they take a shower first, then foreplay, then use a few usual positions, and finally end it. This kind of long-term sex pattern can easily kill people's expectations for sex, and naturally make sex life just like doing tasks, without any passion. To solve this problem, we need to change the pattern of sex. First of all, do not have sex at a fixed time. If you have always had sex at night before going to bed, you can then put it at noon or in the morning. Secondly, don’t always use the sex positions you often used before. Nowadays, there are endless sex positions. Different positions have different experiences. You can learn from each other and then try them. In short, don't let yourself and the other party guess every step of your sexual life. If you can't guess, you will naturally be full of expectations.

3. Add a sense of adventure to your sex life

Chinese people are always very reserved in their sexual life and are unwilling to express their true thoughts. This is the true feeling of most people when it comes to their sexual life. But if you don't express your true thoughts, others won't be able to guess it, and naturally your sex life won't be particularly harmonious. If you want to rekindle the passion in your sex life, you must learn to be adventurous. You can meet up for a field trip or a car ride. It is perfectly fine to find long-lost passion without affecting public order and good morals. Two people can also role-play and open the door to a new world. I believe everyone will be addicted to it.

4. Communicate more

Communication is the best way for couples to solve problems. Whether it is about sex life or other issues in life, there should be more communication and communication. Only in this way can we find the crux of the problem and understand it. Where to start to solve the problem. Some couples have some contradictions. The existence of these contradictions will prevent them from being involved in their sexual life and unable to become passionate. Naturally, their sexual life will be as dull as water. Two people can communicate more and resolve conflicts as much as possible, at least to the point of reconciliation, so that their sexual life can be free from interference from external factors.

After entering the marriage hall, the passion will be exhausted little by little in the daily necessities, but this does not mean that it will always be like this in the future. As long as two people work together and use the above tips, I believe it will only be a matter of time before the passion of the honeymoon returns.