Everyone knows that men’s penis will have an erection when sleeping at night. This is a normal physiological phenomenon. In fact, women also have similar sexual impulses when they sleep.

On average, healthy men will have more than three nocturnal erections every night, with a total duration of about 100 minutes. Through such "stretching exercises", the penis can not only provide sufficient oxygen and nutrients to local tissues, but also take away metabolic waste.

Women also have similar sexual urges while sleeping at night. For example, vaginal congestion, increased vaginal secretions, etc. Many women also have sexual dreams, in which they can get a certain amount of sexual pleasure, their bodies may twitch, and they may even reach orgasm. Generally speaking, the parasympathetic nervous system promotes sexual organ excitement, and the sympathetic nervous system inhibits sexual organ excitement. During sleep, the brain is in a resting state, and the excitability of the parasympathetic nerves increases, so the genital vasculature dilates, local blood flow increases, and accessory gonad secretion increases, resulting in the above phenomenon.

However, many women lack a correct understanding of their sexual impulses during sleep, which creates a lot of unnecessary psychological burdens. In fact, from a physiological point of view, the erection of the male penis and the congestion of the female vagina when sleeping at night are ways for the sexual organs to relax and repair themselves. People are under various pressures during the day, which inhibits the occurrence of sexual impulses; when they are asleep at night, this inhibition is reduced and the sexual organs can stretch. Therefore, whether you are a man or a woman, you don’t have to worry too much about sexual urges during sleep.

Touching can arouse female sexual impulse

The perfect woman in a man's mind is sometimes not about her figure and beauty, but her energy during sex. Men like women who can create an atmosphere during sex and combine static and dynamic movements. But in real life, women rarely take the initiative in sex because their sexual impulse does not rise. In this regard, how to make women have sexual desire, how can men arouse women's sexual impulses, and how can women satisfy themselves with sexual impulses? Touching is a shortcut.

How to arouse a woman’s sexual impulse 1: The power of touch

In lovemaking, touching is essential. Because touching can make a woman want to stop and feel hot all over her body. In fact, there are techniques for touching women. For most people, the genitals, earlobes, lips, breasts, buttocks, and thighs are the most obvious erogenous zones. However, many people's erogenous zones also include the neck, palms, soles and abdomen. Therefore, if you want to exert the power of touching, a man must first break through his woman's sensitive zones.

Moreover, the order and intensity of stroking are also particular. Generally speaking, you should start from the least sensitive part first and gradually transition to the most sensitive part. You can't touch the most sensitive parts right from the beginning, to make her feel unsatisfied, and more! Women are more sensitive to the intensity of touch. Usually they like to start with a gentle touch and then gradually increase the intensity. Many people touch their spouse in a way that they like, but not necessarily in a way that the other person likes. You should first find out what the other person really needs before you can achieve good results.

How to arouse a woman’s sexual impulse 2: The vision of love

When making love to a woman, do you close your eyes or open them? Many people will say that sex with realistic eyes is considered true love. In fact, this is not the case. Occasionally turning on the lights and having sex will seduce women's sexual desire. Women will have sexual impulses due to visual stimulation, just like handsome men do to them.

Gentle, longing gazes can increase the sexual excitement of both parties during lovemaking, allowing them to understand each other's feelings and passion at the moment. Women don’t have to worry about their breasts being too small or their thighs too thick, and men don’t have to worry about their penis being too small or their body hair being too thick. The power of vision is enough to withstand these.

How to arouse a woman’s sexual impulse 3: Sexy smell

The smell of a man is what arouses a woman's sexual desire. The sexy smell of a man makes a woman fascinated. Everyone has a body odor, formed by bacteria on the surface of the skin, that varies from person to person like fingerprints. When we feel someone is attractive to us, it has a lot to do with his or her body odor. According to the survey, 71% of men and women believe that body odor is an important "stimulant". About 1/3 of women think men with strong body odor are sexier than men with light body odor.

Women's sense of smell seems to be more sensitive than men's. They can smell the slight odor of sweat from 3 feet away. During ovulation, their sense of smell is particularly sensitive. A whiff of your spouse's body fragrance is usually not enough to turn you on. But your spouse’s body fragrance does play an important role in sex that cannot be underestimated. The sexy smell of men can arouse women's sexual impulse, and it is particularly strong. Even stranger men, as long as the smell that women like, will make them have sexual desire.

How to arouse a woman’s sexual impulse 4: Taste and sex.

We have about 10,000 taste buds, which are distributed in different parts of the tongue according to different sensory functions: taste buds on the tip of the tongue feel sweet, taste buds on the side of the tongue feel sour, and taste buds on the back of the tongue feel bitter. Only the salty taste can be felt in all parts of the tongue. That's a good thing, because the human body can smell slightly salty even when it's perfectly clean.

Men and women seem to have slightly different taste preferences. Men prefer salty taste, while women prefer sweet taste. But the most important thing during sex is to clear out any unpleasant taste. Most of us like to have sex with our spouse after taking a bath. Although movies and ads often promote the smell of sweat as a "sexy medium," few people actually want to kiss and make love to their spouse right after playing tennis or golf.