Many couples don’t know the importance of foreplay in sexual life. In fact, for women, vaginal penetration does not necessarily bring about orgasm. Only adequate foreplay can bring women the highest pleasure. Below we Let’s take a look at how couples should play before sex?

What should couples do before sex?

1. Lips

Women love kissing. Try varying the intensity (start softer, then warmer, then gradually gentler). After kissing her lips, kiss her cheeks, eyelids, forehead, nose, neck and earlobes. It'll be even better if you don't let your hands wander around for several minutes of the kiss (focus solely on the kiss) and wait for her to signal that you're ready.

2. Scalp

Have you ever noticed how many women love to play with their hair? They do it because it makes them feel good, and chances are she wants you to play with it too. Her scalp is very sensitive to irritation, and she probably never expected you to care about it, so this is sure to surprise her. Brushing her hair can be a very sensual experience for her. You can also run your fingers through her hair while kissing her, or simply rub her scalp gently with your hands. Washing or blow-drying her hair (regardless of the style, you'll never get a look she's happy with) is a great way to enhance feelings.

3. Breasts

Breasts are an erogenous zone that most men are familiar with, so you're unlikely to ignore them. The mistake you're more likely to make is touching them too much (or too hard) before she's ready. Excessive stimulation may cause breast numbness or pain in women during certain periods of the menstrual cycle. Try the "less but more" approach: lightly touch her breasts, then move your hands away, leaving time for her to move. Remember, the entire breast is covered with nerve endings, so you can make your nipples erect by stimulating areas other than the nipple.

4. Back waist

If you let her lie on the bed (or on you) and massage her lower back, it will definitely bring her unexpected happiness. It's also rich in nerve endings and is an area that takes a lot of pressure, making her feel very comfortable and relaxed. Not only that, it also helps with sexual arousal. Because massage promotes blood circulation and congestion in the pelvic area. Begin by applying steady, moderate pressure with your fingertips. Add some power if she likes. Kissing this area is also a good idea.

5. Soft parts

This is where you can innovate. Kiss her softly on the hollows of her knees, the insides of her arms, her inner thighs, or the crook of her neck. Women like to have you touch, kiss, lick or blow on these areas. What a sexy feeling it is to lick the inside of your arm with your tongue. This is a wonderful feeling that can only be found in novels. And once she focuses her attention on these areas, the pace of things relaxes—which is also very helpful for her.

Pumping techniques to reach orgasm quickly:

When the pumping depth is deeper, women will obviously feel the sexual pleasure impulse from the contact between the glans and the cervix, which can make women feel completely different from the pleasure when rubbing the clitoris. On the contrary, when the frequency of thrusting is lower and the thrusting is shallower, the degree of sexual excitement of both parties will be weaker, and the corresponding level of sexual pleasure will also be lower. Optimum pumping frequency According to relevant foreign reports, the pumping frequency is generally 1-2 times per second. When the pumping frequency exceeds 2 times per second, it can be regarded as high-frequency pumping. High-frequency pumping time can generally only last about 2 minutes.

When the pumping frequency is once every few seconds, it is low frequency pumping. Low-frequency pumping is generally used to suppress the motivation value of male sexual desire behavior to disperse sexual excitement energy, prevent ejaculation from occurring, and extend the duration. The purpose of high-frequency pumping is to increase the sexual desire of both parties, concentrate the sexual excitement energy of both parties, and promote the occurrence of orgasm at the same time, so as to obtain the highest quality sexual pleasure.

Even the pumping movement is not just in and out, it is best to have changes in movement. In particular, repeated insertion at a slow speed and shallow coupling can make women in the excitement period restless. When women are anxious and long for stronger stimulation, deep coupling will be given. Generally speaking, the pumping frequency is inversely proportional to the pumping depth, that is, the higher the pumping frequency, the shallower the pumping depth.

Some tips related to pumping: In addition to pumping frequency, pumping depth, and duration, the acquisition of high-quality sexual pleasure also depends on factors such as the caliber and length of the woman, the size and length of the man when he is enlarged, and the degree of lubrication of the female secretion. related.

Once the inexperienced men are coupled, in order to capture their own pleasure, they move back and forth and do vigorous thrusting movements. However, only pumping is not sex. Just like body positions, all kinds of changes, clever combinations, and changes can enhance women's pleasure and guide women to orgasm.