Even if the first night's dissatisfaction is small, it will leave an indelible shadow in the wife's heart, making her doubt whether her husband's love is sincere and deep, and whether he is considerate and caring for her. This kind of denial will not only affect the quality of the couple's sexual life, but will often be transferred to other aspects of daily life, increasing each other's conflicts and troubles.

However, for most men, it is a luxury for a young, strong and long-awaited groom to be gentle and tender in his first sexual life. Especially in a country like ours that lacks sexual knowledge, in a nation where romantic love is still more or less a luxury product, and in a cultural atmosphere where spiritual feelings are far from rich, it is difficult for men to "moisten things quietly" the first time. ".

For most married people, the first night seems like a lifetime ago, but there is still a chance to make amends. All husbands should choose an affectionate opportunity to ask their wives whether they felt bad about their first night. This does not require an answer, it is just a "statement".

At this time, the husband is saying: I didn’t understand sex when I was young, so I might have hurt you unintentionally. Now that I have knowledge and love, I will compensate with extra consideration. It's like when we walk on the street, even if we bump into others unintentionally, or even if we have to, at least we have to say "I'm sorry." What will your wife do after hearing this statement? Just try and you will find out.