During pregnancy, many couples abstain from sex, which has certain benefits for the woman's health and the growth and development of the fetus. Of course, even if you are not abstinent, you must exercise restraint in your sexual life. Don’t be anxious when having sex after childbirth. You must clarify some things and pay attention to some matters to ensure the safety of your sexual life and the health of women. Come down and let us find out together.

What should you pay attention to when having sex after giving birth?

1. Don’t have sex too early

We can understand the desire of both parties for sexual life, but we must not act too hastily. We must wait until the woman's body has fully recovered before starting. If a woman has a normal delivery, she can have sexual intercourse about two months after delivery. At this time, the woman's body has almost recovered. After a comprehensive examination 42 days after delivery, the time for first sexual intercourse will be determined based on the doctor's advice. If a woman has a caesarean section, in addition to the recovery of her body organs, her incision also needs recovery. It takes longer than a normal birth, about three months.

2. Use contraceptive measures

It is a complete rumor that women cannot get pregnant during lactation. Please do not believe it. You cannot decide whether to use contraception based on whether menstruation has resumed, because sometimes even if menstruation has not occurred but ovulation has resumed, pregnancy can still occur. At this time, the husband must take responsibility and cannot ignore any contraceptive measures. Pregnancy at this time will harm the wife's health.

3. Pay attention to hygiene habits

After a woman gives birth, her body will be relatively weak, her resistance rate will be very low, and she will be more susceptible to germs. Therefore, when she is able to have sex, she must pay attention to the development of hygienic habits. Before and after having sex, both men and women must clean their private parts, and it is best to wear condoms during sex, which can effectively block the invasion of bacteria.

4. Leave a private space

It was originally a world of two, but now that a baby suddenly appears, the personal space of two people is bound to be squeezed. I hope that when you decide to have sex, you can properly arrange your baby, and it is best to let the baby follow you. The nanny sleeps, or the baby sleeps with the elder, leaving enough space for the two of them. If you are having sex while worrying about whether the baby will wake up, and worrying about whether it will disturb the baby's sleep, and cannot devote yourself wholeheartedly to sex, then the sex life will not be of high quality, and it is better not to have it at all.

5. Fully mobilize women’s emotions

Some women are repelled by sex after giving birth and are reluctant to have sex. At this time, you can have enough patience, find out the reasons why you are unwilling to have sex, and then solve them. The husband must be patient to give his wife more time and space, and encourage his wife to know the real thoughts behind her. Never force your wife to have sex. This will cause huge physical and psychological trauma to your wife and affect your future married life.

When having sex after childbirth, you need to pay attention to the above aspects. I hope everyone can understand them clearly. Both parties must work together to make sex life safer, more harmonious, and of higher quality.