How do we treat love in college?
“The last stop of campus love, I will regret if I don’t get on the train”
Oralist: Xiaowen, a grade 06 girl from the School of Liberal Arts
Campus love is like a fast-moving train , University Station is probably the last stop, everyone is crowded on the platform waiting. But who can know where the terminal is after getting on the bus, and whether the distance below is a lifetime or a moment?
My good friends say that I am a sentimental and good girl, and I think so too. Since elementary school, I have always been a good child in the eyes of teachers and parents. I go to school on time and do my homework seriously. I never fell in love until college because that was not allowed by adults.
When we enter college, we are like flowers, ushering in the season of blooming. Some people also say that falling in love in college is a waste of time, and college life after falling in love is not necessarily complete. I don’t want to refute anything, but I know clearly that when everyone walks out of campus and enters society, love is no longer pure love. When you really face marriage, you have to consider the financial strength of the two people and the family background of the other person... The love at that time was different from the love on campus. I prefer to call it social love.
After missing campus love, social love will not be unforgettable to you.
The college years, and only the college years, can become the prime time for love. I have experienced campus love in many youth literature: as time goes by, lovers will experience quarrels and emotional burnout. When they recall their youth many years later, they will also think of the youthful love between the two of them at that time. Love means remembering that another person said "I love you" to you. This beautiful memory has to be said to be a gift; this beautiful memory will never be forgotten in my lifetime. I want to seize the last chance of campus love and prevent true beauty from becoming something that can never be repeated. The last stop of campus love, I will regret not getting on the bus.
"If you don't fall in love, how can you become an alien"
Oral speaker: Xiaoliang, grade 07, School of Marxism
I once heard my father say that he went to college I never thought about falling in love. Although I cannot be sure whether it is true or not, I believe that compared with current college students, they have more ideals and cherish the hard-won opportunity to study more. My ideals are also very lofty, and my parents have high expectations for me. I hope that my four years in college will not be wasted.
I am willing to be lonely, because I feel that the journey of seeking knowledge is destined to be lonely, and it may also be difficult. I see some students doing nothing all day long and falling in love just to pass the boring time. I really feel sorry for them. How precious four years in college are! My schedule is very simple. Basically, I am either in class, reading in the library, or studying in the study room. I feel that I have a very fulfilling life.
A very outstanding girl expressed her affection for me, but I made it clear that I would not fall in love in college. I would rather be her good friend. The strange thing is that I have become an alien in the eyes of some classmates. They think that in college, if you don't have the opportunity to fall in love, forget it. If you have the opportunity, you must become an "ascetic", which is too strange.
I have a basic idea: love must be based on career, at least on the basis of being able to build a family. But I don’t have any of these, and I can’t be financially independent. I hope to create conditions for the future through my hard work now. Some friends say that I am a rational "cold-blooded animal". I don't deny it, nor do I think it's bad.
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