Emotions are something that cannot be explained clearly, just like when a person drinks water, he knows whether it is warm or cold. Many people always interfere too much in their romantic lives and treat each other as their own private property. Although it is in the name of love, it is actually a sign of disrespect. If you want a long-lasting relationship, you must leave sufficient personal space for the other person. Let us find out next.

How to leave personal space for the other person in a relationship?

1. Don’t always make life-threatening serial calls

Many people really lack a sense of security in their love life. Whenever their lover goes out, they want to know the whereabouts of their lover. If the other party does not answer the phone when they are on the phone, they will beat up a dozen or even dozens of people in a row. Telephone. There is no normal reason for not answering the phone, but he never believes it. He always maliciously speculates on the other party's psychology and misunderstands the other party. For this reason, you can change the position and do the business by yourself. Is your lover calling you dozens of times and delaying things? People must empathize with others and think in their shoes.

2. Keep a safe distance

When two people have been together for a long time, all kinds of shortcomings will be exposed in front of each other, which will make the other person feel bored. This is difficult to avoid, but some people have overcome it, while others have not. , just choose to break up. If you want to be with your lover for a long time, you must keep a safe distance from the other person. Men, in particular, need personal space very much. There is a term in psychology called cave psychology. Men sometimes want to put themselves in a cave and not care about anything. Smart women should leave this cave for men. When a man digests his bad emotions, he will naturally not vent these emotions on the woman, and the conflicts between the two people will be much less.

3. Don’t always interfere too much in the other party’s affairs

Although two people are together, they are actually two independent individuals. Each person has his own things to deal with and solve. No one wants their independent field to be invaded by others. The more independent a person is, the less they can accept this. The correct approach is to silently encourage the other party, analyze for the other party, but do not make decisions, give the other party reference opinions, and support the other party regardless of whether they use their own opinions or not. This is a more reasonable way to get along. Being a strong backing for the other party is better than pointing fingers. Much cuter.

4. Don’t vent your bad emotions to the other person

No one has the obligation to be someone else's emotional trash can, even out of love. Many people will be arrogant in relationships. When they encounter unsatisfactory things in life, they will make themselves very angry. When they return to their lover, they want to vent to them. In fact, this is a process of transferring negative emotions. The transfer of negative emotions from oneself to the other person is actually similar, and it will cause problems in the atmosphere between two people. The correct approach is that when something unsatisfactory occurs, you can calmly confide the matter to the other party, but do not bring strong personal emotions or the purpose of finding fault. Only in this way can the problem be solved and negative emotions will not be allowed. Continue to consume the feelings of two people.

It is normal to always be possessive in relationships, but it needs to be overcome. In love, two people are independent individuals. They need independent space, and the other person also needs independent space. Only by respecting each other can they go further.