There is an old French anecdote about a young man who finally conquered a woman he loved and spent the night with her for the first time. The feeling was naturally wonderful - suddenly he pushed her away and hurriedly got dressed. . "Honey, where are you?" she asked in surprise. "Tell them to go," he replied. The young man was already on the windowsill, with one foot on the rope ladder, and was about to find someone to declare his victory.

Everyone who knows a couple who falls in love is very concerned about the development of the situation. Everyone is either for it or against it. The novel "Princess Clive" by Madame Lafayette in the seventeenth century clearly reflects this national tradition. This story tells the love story of a noble lady and a gentleman, in which their inner circle of friends plays a major role. They constantly set up conspiracies and create obstacles in the lovers' love journey. In fact, the fun they get out of it far outweighs the lovers themselves.

In France, few people commit suicide for a love that has gone through hardships. Statistics show that suicide for this reason is quite rare. When it happens, the victim is usually a girl. In France, the person who is frustrated in love is often quick to break free. The French do not believe in the so-called "marry him or her" and "marry her", which are popular in other countries and contain this painful implication. If a woman is abandoned by a man who is "more charming than anyone else," as de Musset said, she will soon find someone who is "more charming than anyone else." If there is a man who has left countless beautiful memories with his unfaithful lover in the Bois de Boulogne, he will not go there every day to be depressed and cry after the breakup. Soon he will wander around the world with another lover. Mulberry forest, (if he is particularly fond of walking in the forest). The French are a sober nation, they love life and will not long mourn the irreversible, with some exceptions.

For thousands of years, the young generation in France have inherited this sexual culture that is secular, sublimated, sexy, intellectual, social, and mixed with vanity. Every French man and woman is born into this tradition.

The famous French thinker Charlie Mohar once said: "Civilization is actually a state in which everyone has more than what he brings when he is born." According to this definition, the level of sexual civilization in France is higher than that of any other nation. (A foreign woman confirmed) A 20-year-old French guy understands women and knows how to treat her well, while in other countries, a man has to be 30 to 35 years old, when his ability and experience reach the peak, to understand this. road.

Ordinary French men who are disheveled and uncleanly groomed are often more considerate, gentle and affectionate towards women than well-dressed men from other countries. When dealing with women, a Marseille wine merchant is more skillful and loving than a German aristocrat.

In France, people at every age have their own specifications and patterns of love. Men first fall in love at the age of 15 or 16, and although sometimes a young man is a head shorter than his lover, he is more likely to do nothing wrong. France has an interesting tradition, which in other countries is called "calf love." The true motherly love between an old lady and a governess and a young man has an enchanting beauty.

Normally, having physical contact with a woman for the first time in France is by no means a frustrating experience, as it often is in northern countries. This kind of experience is so ecstatic that it can give a mature man an infinitely satisfying aftertaste. As Heine wrote, "Anyone who tastes the fruit of love for the first time in France will never forget it in his life."

Love among French adult men is more complicated and involves many factors. Future, career, and vanity will all have an impact on love. Tycoon businessmen, writers, and politicians believed that they must choose a fashionable mistress based on their social status. This idea of ​​connecting "social needs" to sympathizing with women is very different from the customs in other countries, and it is quite curious. Men also have mistresses in the North and other countries, but there she is usually behind the scenes, far away from the man who takes her out in public, and in most cases he goes to great lengths to conceal their relationship. In France, the vast majority of men who have mistresses are not ashamed of it and do not hesitate to have sex with them in full view of the public.

Although not entirely out of altruistic motives, mistresses are usually loyal to their lovers and sometimes do so with genuine affection. She could be his good advisor, help him achieve great things, mediate between him and his enemies, and in short be a helper in his career. Therefore, ambitious French people are extremely grateful to their mistresses and regard them as their first wives. Of course he would hook up with other women as if she were really his wife.